In the current social environment, family and marriage are still the emotional pillars of a woman’s life, and women are still the mainstay in charge of the family’s diet and care for the young and old. Here’s a look at the family, the five levels of a woman’s life after marriage.
One, the young grandmother type
This is the most sought after life level by women. The level.
This is the level of life most sought after by women, where food and clothing are not a concern, and the husband is married to the door, just to have the company of a good man.
In fact, there are countless examples of this kind of success. The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
Many women will be envious, and their usual catchphrase is, “Such a woman has a good life!” Indeed, you can’t help but believe in fate. Some women are born with a rich life, not only are they mentally comfortable, but they don’t need to run around and work for a living all their lives.
Second, the provided-for type
Next is the slightly lesser second level. This level is slightly different from the young grandmother type in that there are certain requirements to be provided for, she requires the woman to give more or less physical effort, and in addition, since she is provided for, there is a certain psychological presence of abandonment.
When men need such women, they generally want them to have some intelligence or ability, to be their right-hand man in their career and family development, not only to teach their husbands and children, but also to conform their daily performance to their social identity requirements, a life that is also predicated on the man’s financial resources.
This life is also good, in the upper class, if you encounter such diamond five old five men, then most women are attracted to this.
Third, full-time
The next third level requires a lot of
The next level requires a lot of payment, full-time at home, compared to the workplace women to take care of their families and careers, or slightly easier, but everything needs to be done by themselves, not allowed to rest, and the spirit is big, if the husband’s financial strength is slightly poor, then the couple may feel the pressure of life ready to increase, so the full-time life is not generally couples can choose, provided that the husband’s money alone can support the family can be.
While the quality of society also requires women to be self-sufficient and self-reliant, after marriage, the focus of women’s lives will shift, and many will be around their husbands and children. The first thing you need to do is to get your own money.
Fourth, the paying type
Women at this level are generally Very tired working moms, not only care about home and children, but also about work, or risk being dismissed. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
These women’s husbands generally give the family burden completely to their wives, they are only responsible for fighting outside, so these women see themselves as the pillar of the family, the husband away from their own can not cook to eat, children away from their own no one to take care of very poor, family away from their own communication The poor communication of the family will be attached to ……, many of them tired and happy, but also let the surrounding women sweat, hope that they will not be so tired in the future.
Five, working together type
Working together family should account for the majority of the current In such a family, the relationship between husband and wife is both like relatives and friends, independent of each other but interdependent, which is a manifestation of the current society advocating the improvement of women’s status and the return of men to the family, and also reflects the legal norms that both men and women have It blurs the traditional social positioning of women and men, and more and more men are becoming kitchen hands, showing off their skills in childcare, and more and more women’s careers are no longer tied up in family, and they believe that in family marriage, both men and women give equally and reciprocally.
Such couples generally seek individual freedom and happiness, but respect and tolerate each other. Compared with the old Chinese tradition, such thinking is a progress of Chinese society, and at the same time, it is also a The family-oriented ideology places more importance on The family-oriented ideology places more importance on the integrity of the family and following social norms, and marriages are generally stable but low quality, while the individual-oriented ideology places more emphasis on individual freedom and happiness, and such marriages are of high quality but will break up immediately if the two parties do not agree, and the divorce rate is relatively high.