It is said that it is easy to love each other and hard to get along. Marriage is like a book, and different people will read it differently. A good marriage not only requires mutual understanding between the two parties before marriage, but the right management after marriage is also quite important. As the saying goes, a marriage of a thousand miles is a thread, since it is destined to meet, do not miss it. So, do you know how a marriage should be run?
Learn to listen
Families with large women and small men are very fashionable, which enough to prove that you have a lot of charm and can capture the heart of your husband who is several years younger than you. However, as you grow older, it is possible that the problems between you due to the age gap will become the main conflict in the family. For example, when your husband is in trouble, what kind of posture do you take to help him? It is obviously wrong to take the posture of a person who has come to comfort him at this time. Such an approach is not only reminding him that you are older than him, but the tone of a lecturer, rather than listening to him at this time and giving him an encouragement.
Avoid Cold War
Life after marriage is quiet, and there are Sometimes it has to be described as plain water. I went to work, left work, cooked dinner, watched TV and slept. It’s easy to get bored with the routine, and you can even figure out what to eat for every meal of the week with your eyes closed. Couples have fewer opportunities to communicate, and as communication decreases, disagreements on many issues tend to come together, resulting in a vicious circle, the more problems, the more the couple will not want to communicate, and the cold war begins. The cold war is a terrible thing, and marriages with long-lasting cold wars are all about getting by.
Learn to interact
Both spouses have their own careers. It is a modern type of family with good interaction between husband and wife. The stress of work is ventilated to each other at home, which is more likely to enhance mutual understanding and trust. Before love is transformed into affection, a confidant family relationship is more solid. When there is nothing to do, often go out for a walk, take a break and relieve the pressure of work. As long as both partners trust each other and have enough space to stretch their personalities, your family will last.
Put away the playfulness
The world is a colorful place, and the more open society is, the more crises it faces for individual small families. Weekends and holidays inevitably involve going out and experiencing new things that are growing with each passing day. Remember, when the window is open, flies and butterflies will come in together. The good things will always be accompanied by the bad things. With so much play, it is easy for both spouses to emotionally go away in search of something new. Try to develop some common quiet interests and hobbies. With a consistent goal, couples can quietly work together to run a good home.