Life is a one-way train ticket, and the moment the train departs, there is no way back for us.
In the long stretch of time, we will have countless choices, but the final ticket remains in our own hands. Once you decide, go straight ahead and don’t look back, you must tell yourself that life has never been, because you have chosen to go far away, you will have to weather the storm, and when you reach your destination, flowers will be blooming all over the place.
A high school classmate of mine
I remember in high school, I had a classmate who was particularly fond of singing and sang very well. So when she chose this topic, she decided to choose music. But at that time, because of all the kids in rural areas, in the older generation’s opinion, singing is not good, you can’t get a good job in the future, you are wasting your time, money, and life.
So, at the time she told her family that, she disagreed with her family, she said, if you study music, don’t come back later. You see, who eats and sings in our village, that’s not a good job. Finally, the parents found it hard to come and say to her gently, girl, we are also for your benefit, you said, if you study music, the future of the university or music, out to find a job, you have no skills.
But the parents’ weak, threatening temptations did even less for my classmate. In this way, my classmates still secretly chose music, without telling their parents. In addition, we were all boarding at the time. We only went home for a day or two in January. When we returned to our parents, we didn’t ask for much. The food and drink were good.
As a result, my classmates learned the music they loved without any support. I remember when her frugality saved the cost of extra music. Every time we saw her food, we helped her out, occasionally asking, “Do you think it’s worth it? Family members don’t understand, don’t support, suffer alone, and can’t let them know that it’s not hard?
At this point, my classmate smiled and said, “There is no way out, who made me choose a path that my parents do not approve of, but since I chose singing as my future goal, I set out on this path and I will never look back.
In those days, she struggled every day, getting up before dawn, opening her voice, and practicing piano late at night, so that the day passed hurriedly and safely for a year.
It wasn’t until the day of her sophomore year that her parents came to see her at school, and because she hadn’t been notified in time, she was shocked by them. When my parents went to see her sophomore year, the teacher said there was no such student in our class.
After that, she was brought home by her parents. When she got home, their parents strongly urged her to change the subject, saying that she wasn’t studying music at all. She actually brought herself to the old director and tried to change the subject for her.
At the time, she cried and said, “I just want to study music, I studied for a year, those I got up early every day, insatiable, not just wanting my parents to not support me, you see I’m not wrong in my choice. I will go farther and farther in the future, why don’t you believe me and look down on music, music has a soul and a world.
In this way, my classmate and her parents are completely cold war, her parents don’t care about her, saying, whatever you like, don’t regret it later. But after all, they are parents, regardless of the mouth, the heart still hurts, the cost of living is still the same, that is, every time you go home, the parents do not face each other.
After that, my classmate got a hold of my major and culture, and she said, I want to go to Beijing, to the best music school in Beijing, and I want to prove that my choice was not wrong, and since I set out on this path, I will not look back.
Later, after the art exam and the college entrance exam, she told us that she had been accepted, but the tuition was high, and although her parents didn’t want her to go, she wanted to earn some living expenses on her own. Almost three months after the college entrance exam that year, everyone else was liberated and she had already started her summer job.
After college, there was occasional contact, and no conversation after the internship.
The girl’s later
Lately, when I look at her facebook, I see that she seems to be further and further down the road of music. With her own perseverance, she entered a vocal competition in Hong Kong and won the award. She also posted on “Instant” and she made a video of a weather presenter on TV. Everything tells me that this girl made it.
In life, no path is futile, whether you succeed in your chosen field or not. You will get the goods, the growth, the tears and the sweat to help you cross the river and persevere to help you rob. Remember, there is no such thing as stepping on it, just move forward and don’t look back.