Xiong Delin was described as “broken shoes” women should reflect

The 47-year-old Aaron Kwok broke up with his seven-year-old model, Debbie Xiong. He recently gave an interview to the Hong Kong media in which he compared his relationship to the “shoe theory”: “If the shoe is uncomfortable, you might as well change it, but if you wear it hard, it will only bleed!” Women wake up and stop foolishly spending their youth and beauty with a man who doesn’t love you, only to end up being compared to him as a “broken shoe.”……

Guo’s “Shoe Theory “

The 47-year-old Aaron Kwok broke up with his 7-year-old model, Debbie Xiong. He recently gave a rare interview to the Hong Kong media in which he explained his views on relationships, saying that even if he was sad, he wouldn’t shed a single tear, and that he had used the “shoe theory” as a metaphor for relationships: “If the shoe is uncomfortable, it’s better to change it, but if you wear it hard, it will only bleed! It’s like a metaphor for the fact that he was once hurt by Debbie Xiong, and he finally realized that this “shoe” didn’t fit.

Hinting that she “doesn’t fit”

Stage king and Golden Horse actor Aaron Kwok and model Debbie Hsiung have been sparks since 2006, but she’s been a “sister-in-law” since then. The company’s main business is to promote the development of the company’s products and services. Xiong Dai Lin wore “points” ring and admitted to be single, “lost city” after a strong smile. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.

It turns out that Aaron Kwok is determined to cut his ties with his friend Charlie Young.

The original decision of Aaron Kwok to cut off his love affair may be related to his friend Charlie Young. The “shoe theory” metaphor for feelings, implying that the 32-year-old model “does not fit”, so he scraped his feet and bleeding, so decided to “take off” each other’s shoes “release”: “as if a pair of shoes do not fit, feet often uncomfortable, you will also want to change a pair of comfortable. We have to walk every day, just like the partner around us, should find the right pair before wearing them, at least not to hurt themselves, hard to only bleed, and wounds can not heal, find another pair may be better, the world of feelings are like this!”

Guo continued with his interpretation of “reluctance is not happy”, arguing that “letting go is better than clinging”, but he didn’t know if Xiong Dai Lin could listen to him. If you can think about each other and hope that each other live a better life, this is the release, everyone is thinking this way, the world must be peaceful.”

Netizens are complaining that the shoes they have been wearing for seven or eight years are now uncomfortable

When Guo’s “shoe theory” was revealed, it immediately triggered a discussion among netizens, many of whom were upset for Xiong Delin and criticized Guo for being “classless. “

The first time I saw this, I was able to get to the top of the list.

@writergrassjunshu even sent facebook saying: “Aaron Kwok and Xiong Dai Lin talked for 7 years, when he broke up, he said: a pair of shoes do not fit the foot when the hard support will bleed. 7 years of shoes even the upper is worn bad, only to find that it does not fit the foot …… seems hypocritical, rather than dry point directly say:. Sleep enough. Or as Jackie Chan said after the submarine rule Wu Qi Li, made a mistake that all men make: like the old and new. The woman also has to pay attention, don’t wait until the man sleeps without a physical response to get married.”

Some facebook users commented:

@Lily has a lion’s share of paper babies: good men compare their girlfriends to jade, bad men compare their girlfriends to shoes. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.

@Beautiful Green Age: If you love it, you don’t need seven years to get married; if you love it, you won’t find it doesn’t fit for seven years…excuses, just his excuses!

@Stendan: This point Guo Tianwang did a bit of bad taste, the woman’s best years to you, you do not like to break up early, so long to break up to let this woman how to do, we men are better.

@Scotchy Cat: This is exactly what Shu Qi said, some people love not even love to sleep enough. It’s true, how many seven years can a woman have, not to mention the days of that glorious youth. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.

Women’s Reflection: Don’t wait for men to get tired of sleeping with you before you want to get married

When a man no longer loves you, he always has an excuse to leave you, and when he does change his mind, you can’t stop him, but often when men think you have “changed”, you realize that in fact You have already really fallen in love with him can not extricate themselves. The woman in love to become smarter, a little better for themselves, the appropriate use of means to capture, do not wait until the man has another new love you review their own capricious, do not wait until the man really tired of sleeping with you before considering marriage.

[The first step of detoxification]

First of all, you have to look at the 6 ghostly eyes of men who “only love but not marry”

What exactly makes men only date and not get married?

1, not really like the woman, or although it is like, but has not yet risen to the level of love, just like it, or is the first to get together to live together to say.

2, although like, but not like enough to marry her, has been too familiar, familiar to not feel anything, can not be excited, because the heart always want to come back to the so-called love, in addition to their own temporary physical needs and can not leave the woman.

3. There are other ideas, there is already a clear “attack” target, but not yet successful, so, first delayed, if the attack is successful, you can “change jobs”, not successful, now the woman in front of you is the alternate wife.

4, wait and see type, such a man, is eating pot looking at the bowl, look at other people’s wives or women where all good, but their own girlfriend is not good, always feel that if married, can no longer have the opportunity to choose, afraid of their future losses or regrets.

5. There are already other women out there, but it’s hard to say goodbye because of past relationships or girlfriends who are too good for him.

6. For the sake of the so-called study or career, because in the future, when the study or career is successful, there will be a lot of opportunities to choose, get married now, in case you meet a better one later, it will be difficult to deal with.

The above reasons do not include those who are emotionally devastated, playful, celibate, physically and mentally challenged, etc.

Countermeasures: If it is 1, 2 these two cases, you can also knock on the side with some small means to remind him to stimulate him, maybe at the right time and place he will be open to you to propose; if it is 3, 4 cases you have to consider the threat of sex to eradicate his distractions, fighting with another woman, you have to use some tough moves; if it is 5, 6 words advise you not to consider, leave early and get out. Early leave early get out, or that, who has not fallen in love with one or two scum in this life? The first thing you need to do is to take a step back.

[The second step “unwind”]

With some means to make men love not enough 8 moves to keep your “mystery”

Secret Weapon #1: Softness

Timing: Early in a relationship, any time you need help. Reason for use: guys like to be heroes. When you give a girl a hand, the guy instantly feels full of heroic spirit. The first thing you need to do is to get a little help. He helped you and will love you more. Only a girl who needs a guy is attractive.

Secret Weapon #2: Let him spill the beans

Time to apply: When guys encounter frustration and disappointment. Reason for use: Heroes get tired, too, and guys work hard. Don’t let them take on too much pressure. Boys want someone to love him and take care of him instead of their mothers, and they all love at heart the kind of girl who lets herself be pampered in front of her. When a boy is down, he needs protection from you with a maternal touch.

Secret Weapon #3: Keep it a mystery

Time to apply: The uncertainty stage of their relationship. Reason for use: Boys are very curious, and when faced with a girl who is difficult to understand her inner thoughts and motivations for her behavior, this mystery is the attraction, drawing them to explore and discover her secrets. Boys naturally have a desire to conquer again, the more reserved you are, the more inexplicable and difficult to navigate, the more fascinated they are, do not let boys feel that you are within reach. A guy once complained about girls who were submissive, “I haven’t even raised my gun yet, and she’s down.” So then, no matter how much you’re calling for him, you can’t act too pushy.

Secret Weapon #4: Give him room for flexibility

Timing: When the relationship is solid but burned out over time. The reason for this is that there is a saying that “men need respect and women need attention”. There is no better way to respect a guy than to give him a flexible space where he can breathe fresh air and show off his skills. Boys are reluctant to be “tied up” in love, often phone calls asking for whereabouts, filtering his friends and hobbies, etc. …… This is like imprisoning them in a cage. From time to time, guys get burned out on relationships and want to “run away”.

Secret Weapon #5: Keep Silent When Appropriate

Timing: When a guy boasts to you; when a guy has something on his mind. The reason for this is that boys always like to show off themselves to girls, and this is when you just have to listen. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Boys bragging in front of you is often nothing more than a lack of self-confidence. If you can’t listen, his self-confidence will crumble if he has trouble building it. Many times, guys seem to be preoccupied but won’t talk about it. Girls take the trouble to guess and end up complaining. It’s best to keep your voice quiet in these situations.