Professor Zhong:
Hello! Now I feel more and more like life is like a chess game, one wrong move and you lose everything.
When I was 14 years old, my breasts started to grow with the onset of my menstruation. I didn’t know that this was normal, and I felt uneasy and scared, so I resorted to corseting my breasts to stop them from growing like crazy. It was not until a few years later, when girls of my age were standing tall, that I felt bad, but it was too late and I felt at a loss. At this time, my girlfriend in the same dorm told me that flat breasts would affect fertility and the harmony of the couple’s sex life. The first thing I did was to get to know the people I was talking to.
After graduating from university, I went to work as a translator for a translation company, and I was bitterly devoted to my work. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of services and services to the public. Perhaps because of business dealings, the single man often asked me to go bowling. He also has a hobby that is the same as mine – enjoying the symphony. The first time I woke up one morning, I realized I was hopelessly in love with him.
This thought was overturned as soon as it occurred to me: He was so distinguished, and I was flat and flat-chested, so what was there to love? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
This is the first time I’ve ever seen a man’s love.
One day, he suddenly disappeared from my life. Although I picked up the phone again and again, but dialed the last digit of his cell phone and then helplessly put it down, why bother to make love to yourself? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
When I got home, I threw away everything Lin Xiang had given me like a madman, and I hated him to death. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market. When I calmed down, I found out that he was in the business of eating, drinking and gambling. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
Two months ago, Lin Xiang came to my company again to translate materials, and also brought me more than a dozen precious imported original symphonies …… This is when I learned that he had a car accident, in the hospital for more than a month …… “I’ve been waiting for you to take care of me, but you don’t care about my disappearance, I waited for you in the hospital bed for a full month!” He told me that he called twice after he was discharged from the hospital and was disheartened when I was out of town. I couldn’t stop the tears. Maybe I was meant to be, but how could I be so unlucky?
Shanghai Chen××
Chen readers:
Cognitive psychology believes that mental and behavioral disorders are caused by misconceptions, irrational beliefs, or incorrect cognitive processes. When our perceptions of things are in line with objective reality, we are able to respond correctly to various life events and maintain physical and psychological balance. Back then, your lack of knowledge about puberty led you to take the wrong measures to hinder the normal development of your chest and breasts. When you see girls of your age “standing tall”, you fall into the psychological misconception of self-hatred and inferiority complex. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
The harmony of the couple’s sex is determined by the foundation of their relationship, not by the size of their breasts. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Being cheated by a love cheater did hit you pretty hard, and I can understand that. The reason why you made such a mistake has deep-seated psychological reasons: when you met him and his lover unexpectedly, who had disappeared for months, the feeling of having been cheated came up, and your fragile self-esteem was strongly stimulated, and your emotions rose and fell violently, showing strong grief, hatred, etc. This phenomenon is called passion in psychology, which is a sudden, strong and short-lived emotional state. When people are in this state, the scope of consciousness is weakened, and the understanding and control of things around them and their own behavior are also weakened, and they often cannot effectively restrain their own behavior, and cannot correctly anticipate the consequences of their behavior, so that they make mistakes one after another, which is also often said to be “woe is me” and “mistake after mistake”. This is also the psychological reason why people often say that “misfortune does not come alone” and “one mistake after another”. The psychodynamic theory explains that in the state of passion, the “ego” and “superego” of human beings have weaker monitoring and binding power over the “ego”, and the subconscious instinct to follow the pleasure principle is like The subconscious instinct to follow the pleasure principle is like a wild horse, seeking instant expression and satisfaction. The fact that you gave yourself rashly to another man in a fit of anger and made a lifelong mistake is not a matter of fate or “bad luck,” but rather a result of your failure to take the right direction when the red light is on and to effectively regulate your psychological vulnerability.
With all due respect, you are mentally immature. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. It is these flaws in you that are causing you to suffer.
The most important thing for you to do is to make a firm break with the second man and regain your confidence and courage in life and get out of your self-imposed circle. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
There are many variables in a person’s life. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Remember, women are beautiful because they are lovely, not because they are beautiful.