Probably due to thousands of years of traditional culture, many men think that philandering is a male preserve, treating one woman as an emotional accessory, only to solve the physical and psychological needs. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these. New age women come out to work, have the ability to afford themselves, and no longer have to give their future to some man. If you’re around a man who thinks you can only survive on him, don’t worry, let him get his head out of his ass.
Women in the eyes of the straight man
Most men, while still believing that men are stronger than women, are beginning to acknowledge the independence of women. Only those men who live in their own little world all day long will shout that women are just appendages of men. We call this, straight male cancer.
1. Nanny or Mom
They think that women, as a matter of fact, should be around men.
They think that women, for example, are to be around men. For example, for him to take care of the chores of life, childbirth, raising children, serving the elderly on both sides, these are supposed to be. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Listen, like those women in the backyard of the Qing Dynasty three hundred years ago, do a good master can reward you a little warmth Oh. Women, are you rare?
2, bed partner
Since as his woman, of course, to do The woman’s part is to serve him. The company is also in bed to meet his requirements Oh. Because he thinks in his head that women are naturally inferior to men, so naturally he should be able to come. If he is willing to be considerate of you, that is his good. If his heart is not comfortable, then we must follow his requirements to oh. The actual fact is that you can’t be sure that you’re going to be able to get a good deal on your own.
3, the mother of the child
It is said that there are three things that are not filial piety, and there are no children. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. They believe that having and raising children is one of the women’s jobs. Because of the physiological structure, we do not deny this. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Because of China’s historical and cultural influences, this scene is probably still more prevalent in our generation when we were kids. What’s more, women nowadays are also blamed by their in-laws and husbands for not having a son after marriage. The scariest thing is that many women agree with these men. (Sad!)
In fact, whether a child is male or female depends on the man, and the father’s responsibility never stops at simply running around, but also doing his part to teach the child in his daily life.
Women should
In a man’s world, women need to refuse to be subservient. However, you can not go in the direction of a strong woman. So, smart women often do.
1.Independent
Independence here includes financial independence and Personal independence. The economic base determines the superstructure, and all independence is false when you don’t have your own income and are dependent on others. Personal independence means having your own thoughts and opinions, not because what the man says is what. You agree with him because you love him, not because you don’t have any ideas of your own.
2. Independence
Outside of men and family, having your own circle of friends, life and work. What do you mean don’t depend on a man to live? As if he travels for a period of time, you feel that life is not nourishing, do not know what to do. Because your life revolves around him. He is no longer there, no one to give you around, will not live. This is not desirable. Even if a woman is in love and married, she should have her own job, friends and life. This is your own space, and his is separate oh. When he is not, you can sing with your girlfriends K shopping and eating together with crazy, you can also read a book by yourself and fret. It’s not boring at all.
Of course, we can’t deny the feeling of loss when the other half walks away when the love is strong. That is the attachment of a loved one temporarily leaving, and a life without yourself are two kinds of it.
3. Confidence
As the saying goes, women are the ones who like themselves. It means that women dress up for men. Some men say that when the man next to you denies everything about you, do you follow suit? When you love him very much, it is inevitable that this will happen. But a woman who loses her self-confidence is like a flower that loses its sustenance, and the more she looks, the uglier she feels. Feel? So don’t be presumptuous. Everyone has their own beauty, even if this man does not appreciate you, it does not mean that you do not have their own beautiful oh.
If you dress in a style or something he doesn’t like, and you don’t appreciate too much what he does like, why not use it as an opportunity? We all come together to discuss what style to dress up in. Of course, don’t forget that dressing up is about building on your strengths and avoiding your weaknesses, and after countless trials, you will always find a style that works for you.
4. Self-love
Don’t make a mistake, society is still more demanding. In the time of lost love, want to get drunk, you may meet a certain man in the water is a colleague a few years later. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a couple of years in the future. Some moment when you feel bored and want to indulge, you may be caught in the act. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Society is so unfair, even the new era can not do gender equality. Can not change the general environment, can only restrain themselves. So, women, you really, really want to indulge yourself when you think about the worst possible consequences. If you really want to, why not find a tragic movie and have a good cry? Or arrange a trip for yourself, you may meet a handsome man on the way. If not, turn your grief and anger into strength and work hard at your job. It would be nice to come back and reap a bunch of silver.
You should be dependent on a man, but don’t trust him with your whole being. Of course, if you are really lucky to meet a man you can trust, entrusting is not a bad thing. For example, he has his own independent mind, knows what he is doing, takes on the pressure from the elderly for you, covers most of your expenses, and is happy to take care of the children with you. But the reality is that the majority of men can’t afford to carry all of this, so a woman’s lifelong happiness doesn’t have to remain on his shoulders. If you really think he should do it (and he should, he just can’t), it’s just going to cause round after round of arguments.
Modern women need to be both independent and show some dependence on men to avoid being classified as a strong woman, so women should not be an accessory to men, nor should they always show I am the best in front of men. The actual fact is that you can be a lot more than just a little bit of a person.