Your love may be sweet, but sometimes it can be physically and emotionally exhausting. You are like a mother or a nanny to him, as you take care of all kinds of life chores? The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation.
1. Is it comparable to babysitting? If you want to eat to your sweet words and pampering two sentences you can not resist, obediently submit to the kitchen sweat just for him a satisfied smile …… This is the typical performance of “spoil” him, if you have this behavior, quickly reflect on the two people in love to The actual fact is that you can be a good person, but you can’t be a one-sided person.
2, the life of the big lazy bug all let you in charge
Every couple allocate finances in different states, maybe the woman has sole control of the family finances, maybe the man is responsible for all the expenses, but if all the expenses of daily life come from you, you should think about why that is …… he has no income? His money is only used in their own food, drink, entertainment and dressing? He is within the four seas are brothers often go out drinking and socializing? If you are not only his babysitter, or his check, then what exactly are you doing with him?
3.He doesn’t care about work, but you are enough
He He doesn’t worry about his job at all, as long as his income is enough to keep him fed and watered, and has no other grand plans. He likes to live a relaxed life, the future and other goals are not in his scope of thinking. He has a job, but he doesn’t work hard, or he doesn’t work at all and spends his time watching TV or eating and drinking. What you need to do is to quickly help him to change his mind, correct attitude, so that he can establish scientific life values and guide the right direction, so that he can face his future life path positively, so that the two of you can create a better and brighter future together! There is another way besides this, which is to leave him.
4. financially dependent on you
He will pay for you! But then you may borrow a little bit, and then a little bit more …… Based on the fact that you have built a good impression of him as a generous gentleman, even if you are half-hearted about it, you will bury your doubts and lend it to him first for the time being. The so-called “your money is his money, your money is common money”, in this seemingly indistinguishable intimate atmosphere, you have gradually collapsed under his sugar-coated shells. The surface looks like he relies on you and can’t leave you to do everything by you, but in fact you’ve been eaten by him! The first thing you need to do is to wake up, see your true relationship and make a wise choice before it’s too late!
If you’re reading this and you find yourself in one of these situations with him …… don’t cover your face and get upset, look at your relationship, try to coordinate to turn it around and The same can be said for the way to take a big step towards happiness.