I. Chinese women don’t know how to love themselves
For a lesson that has been missing for thousands of years, it is not easy for Chinese women to make up for it in 100 years, but because this lesson is so important to happiness, a score of 60 is not enough.
These are, of course, evidence that contemporary Chinese women are loving themselves more and more, but indeed, their effectiveness in filling empty eyes is too short-lived.
In fact, the root of Chinese women’s unhappiness is that we rarely think of ourselves as subjects of the world, and our first reaction to problems is always “what will others think” – the simplest example of this is to look at Chinese women’s experiences with “lingerie” and “beauty”. The simplest example of this is the amount of effort and money Chinese women put into their “underwear” and “outerwear” respectively.
Don’t be confused by the “ego” that some seemingly eyebrow-raising women talk about nowadays, when they suddenly become suspicious of something that more than 3 people around them are against, no matter how much they believe in it and aspire to it.
Of course, this comes from what we’ve been taught since we were kids: “To be a lady is to put your responsibility to others above your right to be a human being,” or even more annoyingly, this generation of Chinese women has grown up hearing the truth that “if the skin doesn’t exist, the hair will not be attached. ” the truth. So, we often tear our own souls and bodies apart with our own hands in a dazed light smile.
II. Chinese women superstitiously believe in love
Love is the ancient flower of women’s hearts all over the world – in the United States, the best-selling women’s books on the market all start with Howto: How to get a man’s attention in 3 minutes, How to give him the night of a lifetime, How to Keeping Him for Life ……
A very exciting and interesting game. But here in Chinese women, love has become a business that sits squarely on the ground, more important than even living itself.
Personally, I think Grandma Qiong Yao and her dogs have done a lot of harm to this.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good understanding of what you’re talking about.
So the infinitely happy Chinese women stopped hoeing the ground, stopped playing on the computer, stopped walking the dog, and stopped visiting their parents, and the town was in a trance and behaving strangely, waiting for the lottery to fall from the sky, and it had to be a jackpot.
It’s easy to find out that the above actions are comparable to waiting for a rabbit, and then you fall into the mire of “why can’t I find a rich man who loves me & I love” like a grass, but of course it’s better, no, it’s necessary, to add “a good sex life”.
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III. Chinese women are too afraid of getting old
Of course, no woman is afraid of getting old:
A:My sister and I are 60 years old combined.
B:Oh, are you comfortable leaving your sister, who is so young, home alone?
The joke doesn’t come from China, yet in the 21st century, there are few ethnic groups more afraid of aging than Chinese women.
In recent years, the world’s biggest cosmetic brands have added Chinese instructions to their products, as China is overtaking Japan as the number one market in Asia in terms of sales – or the fact that Chinese women’s salaries are only $8,000 a month, but that doesn’t stop us from buying a $4,000-plus bottle of cream without batting an eye. Even though we’re aging more quickly with our life-like earning careers, …… is a good place to start.
First of all, of course, because we are terrified by the look of our mothers who have only known how to apply sunscreen since they were 40 years old; secondly, who has seen a Chinese woman’s face with even a hint of fine lines after scouring all the big and small TV and print ads in the world? In other words, there are wrinkles?
Lastly, or most importantly, a well-known magazine once dressed a Chinese woman as a young or old woman on the street, and the result? The old one almost smiled and smashed her face and said she had broken her lips, but no man glanced at her.
Four. Chinese women like to pity themselves
The company’s top meeting at the impassioned speech, the most lumpy customers in one fell swoop, fly halfway around the world in two weeks …… or Chinese women have done, but when the night is late, beautiful people alone, see the mirror gray tired face, the reigning Chinese women’s pace is more The same: “Aye, I am a woman, what is this figure ah?” The entire ambition is now only the remaining waves.
According to a workplace survey, it’s easy for Chinese women to rise to the middle, but very few can make it to the top because there is a glass ceiling above our heads that is hard to see, but exists all the time. “A girl, can do so has been very difficult!” Does this sound familiar?
Yes, that’s the highest praise that the better Chinese girls grow up hearing. As for the mediocre ones: “It’s okay, it’s good to be a girl.”
The career ender for Chinese women is just 6 words: it’s a woman after all.
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V. Chinese women are overly sensitive.
Six, Chinese women are prone to self-blame.