A survey shows that the average woman keeps secrets for no more than 47 hours. Researchers found that once women hear any gossip, they have trouble restraining the desire to share it with others. The pleasure of gossip is for both men and women. But it must be admitted that women are more gossipy by nature. Princeton University psychologist Daniel? The first thing that women can do to feel happy is to have sex, relax, pray, and eat, and that is what is known as GOSSIP (gossip, gossip).
Historically speaking, women have long been confined to traditional social structures, excluded from public affairs and often exposed to trivial matters, while women are exposed to people who are extremely isomorphic, and it is not easy to talk about anything else without talking about winter leather boots or Zhang San Li Si. So women’s roles are allowed to gossip to their heart’s content by social concepts, and may even be gossip as the beginning of friendship. It can even be said that women’s interpersonal relationships are closer, it is gossip in the social life of the role of bonding. Psychologists also point out that as long as the gossip is appropriate and not over the top, proper gossip is good for a woman’s mental health.
Appropriate gossip can relieve stress
Many people have the impression that as soon as a few women sit down together, they start “gossiping” about the world, from foreign princes and princesses to national entertainment stars, from astronomy to geography, from the smallest to the most recent sale at the mall, from which brand to the smallest.
American counselor Feng Dairong told reporters that appropriate gossip is good for health. The company is also a normal form of communication, and it is because of the love of gossip that stress has an outlet. It is especially good for those who have not been confided in for a long time to release their stress, and gossip with the crowd to release the pressure of their pain in time.
A U.S. study also confirmed that talking regularly with a little sister can help women reduce stress and anxiety, which is good for both physical and mental health. The University of Michigan professor in charge of the study noted that luteinizing hormone plays an important role in building relationships and making women more willing to help others, and that it allows women to take more risks in helping others. The results of the study confirm that if women talk to people regularly to “gossip,” they can increase their luteinizing hormone, which can lead to a happier mood and better health after reducing stress.
Growing up determines the ability to “gossip” later in life
Not every woman loves to gossip, and there are those who relish it, and those who scoff at it and even those who gossip. Experts say that a person’s attitude toward gossip depends a lot on the family environment she grew up in. If the parents are very enlightened, family education environment is relaxed, such people grow up to accept gossip ability is higher, but also can easily communicate with people about extramarital affairs, divorce rates and other more negative gossip talk. On the other hand, people with strict and closed family education are less able to accept this kind of negative gossip.
Don’t go too far with gossip
Women love to gossip, but they need to know the “right” amount of gossip. The reason why many people hate someone who loves to gossip is often because the person has crossed the line of gossip and become an unwelcome “gossip”. Experts point out that there are many topics of gossip, but never about personal privacy, income and religion. Even if they are very familiar with each other’s friends to leave space for each other, do not casually mention each other’s husbands or friends of the opposite sex; do not reject others because of different opinions. The most difficult thing to grasp is the “proportion”, too much, “gossip” will become “gossip”.