The saying goes that sickness comes from the mouth and trouble comes from the mouth! If a woman wants to live a happy life, she must control her mouth …… the following 6 words must not often say to men, beware of ruining their own happiness.
The first sentence: Without me, you wouldn’t be here today!
Subtext: You don’t have any hope of becoming a success with your own little ability, but it’s all thanks to my wife’s hard work!
Explanation: Love is first and foremost a form of respect, and if you don’t respect him, how can you cherish him? If your payment is derived from a willing love, then you simply are not in the mood will be to count the gains and losses; if you have begun to care about their own payment, is to show that your love has not enough weight.
Second sentence: I was bullied again at work.
Subtext: Husband, you’re useless, making your wife go out and suffer in the open!
Explanation: Women always like to bring home the company’s grievances to share, while men do the opposite. So the following situation often happens – the woman at home to complain more than, men do not say a word, or even as if not heard. In fact, women just need to listen, need love, need men’s attention, but this ill-timed method, will only increase the psychological burden of men. It is better to go shopping with a confidante, scold the boss, and then go home in a calm mood. The company is someone else’s, the man is his own oh, this outburst was scolded bad, not at all good for you.
Third sentence: Who do you love more, me or your mom?
Subtext: She and I are in constant conflict, you have to show an attitude to support me, you have to oppose her!
Explanation: It is possible to love each other in order to think about each other, not only you and him, but also your mother-in-law. Love is mutual, you to love her, trust her, this emotion is possible to feedback to yourself. So, treat your mother-in-law as a lover, not as a love interest, and you won’t have to ask questions like this.
Quote 4: I’m leaving you and leaving the house.
Subtext: I shouldn’t have married you in the first place, and it’s not too late to take the regret pill.
Explanation: This lack of family responsibility will make him want to get into trouble, and will cause a rift in your relationship. After the fight, turn around and leave, will make the chicken feathers also become impossible to close. Even if you make up, the sensible man, will convince himself to love you less because it is not secure enough.
Fifth sentence: Who sent this text message?
Subtext: Be honest – are you seeing someone else?
Explanation: When you check your husband’s phone, it’s usually because you see something. At times like this, trust is actually doubly needed. Excessive squeezing and monitoring is instead pushing him outward. Instead of holding on to a text message, it is better to use more warm tips and sweet memories to hook back into his heart. The suspicion can stay in your heart, just don’t let him know.
Sentence 6: Sorry, I’m not sexually interested right now.
Subtext: Husband you’re not man enough, you can’t satisfy me at all.
Explanation: Denying a man’s sexuality is the biggest insult to him, especially if it’s a simple, brutal denial. Even if you refuse to light yourself up to meet him, you can also let the desire to slowly heat up. Even if you really do not want to force yourself, you can also find a reason not to be used to ease. A flat-out refusal will not only affect his mood for a while, but also his sexual function.