The problem of in-laws and daughters-in-law has always been a headache for every family. Because people’s personalities vary so much, various mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law get along differently, but one thing is the same, and that is – -Family talk. Whether you are a highly qualified mother-in-law, or an uneducated, domineering, careful mother-in-law, you can’t get away from the family talk. And homely talk is the easiest way to communicate and connect, so you have to coax your mother-in-law to get along with you, you have to coax her with the most usual homely talk.
1. You still look very young
In fact, this statement is appropriate for everyone, young and old, men and women alike. Of course for a woman, she prefers to be told she is young, but pay attention to the scale, do not over exaggerate, otherwise your mother-in-law will think you are false, be sure to make her feel you are speaking from the heart.
2. This dish you made is so delicious
Whether you are a chef Or the average housewife, she likes it when you have a good opinion of her cooking. When you eat a meal at your mother-in-law’s place, you don’t care how it tastes, it’s true, your mother-in-law will be very happy to hear it, but you have to match it with action.
3. You look good in this dress
When your mother-in-law wears a dress that she thinks is nice, you can say “yes”. Don’t pretend you don’t see it, you have to say something like, “You look great in this dress” to make your mother-in-law feel noticed and complimented.
4. Your grandson (or granddaughter) talks about you all day
When you’re on When you take the kids to see your in-laws on a day off, especially on a long vacation, you can say this as soon as you enter the house. Your mother-in-law will be especially happy to hear it and will feel that this cute little grandchild misses her every day and makes her feel hopeful, not to mention that what mother-in-law doesn’t dote on her little grandchild?
5. That’s right
This is a very practical phrase to coax your mother-in-law. It can come in handy in many situations in life. Whenever you are with your mother-in-law, she will always say something to you or make a suggestion, even if she is giving advice to someone else, you can say something like, “That’s right” to make her feel like you are her supporter.
6. You’re too good at buying
This is also a very practical family saying The first thing you need to do is to ask your mother-in-law, if she comes back from buying vegetables or something, generally the daughter-in-law has to ask: “How much is this vegetable a catty?” No matter how much your mother-in-law says, you say, “You’re too good at buying, it’s cheaper than what I bought.” This is to praise her for being good at keeping house. In fact, the elderly just need coaxing, need to praise her in the normal details of life, people are like this, always like to hear more praise, listen to the heart will be comfortable, happy. I think that as long as the daughter-in-law can consciously do the attention and support to her mother-in-law, the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be much better. The most important thing is to make sure that you are aware of what you are doing.