In today’s society, there are so many temptations, plus men are naturally lustful, so the possibility of them having an affair is very high. When a husband has an affair, women usually take some measures. But the following countermeasures are indeed extremely stupid and should not be done.
1. Create a harmonious family atmosphere against your will.
Knowingly, your husband is having an affair, but pretending to be in harmony as a couple. It is hard to secretly tolerate love triangles, accept that your husband is physically and mentally involved with other women, and pretend to be happy although you are in the same bed. Over time, not only painful and depressing, the psychology will also be twisted and perverted. Faced with her husband’s betrayal, the woman suffers twice as much in the siege as she does living single. Her husband ignores her existence, and other men will not be interested in her because she is married. Therefore, this type of marriage can make a woman suffer from depression.
2. Convince yourself with self-deception.
Wouldn’t want other women to share their husbands, but women superstitiously believe their husbands’ lies and have illusions: he cheated, just a moment of confusion, just the seduction of women outside. This will all end sooner or later. Just, the husband really loves you, will do so? The sweetness of the taste he will stop? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are doing.
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Many women have counted their husbands’ infidelity several times, just lacking the courage to give up, often on the grounds that their children are small and fearful of hurting their hearts, holding their breath just to preserve a family that exists in name only. In fact, children growing up in such a family is even more detrimental. In addition, children cannot replace the real relationship between you and your husband. Don’t shift the responsibility for your relationship to your children. When the child grows up, you complain: look, it’s because you’re too young, your father and I haven’t divorced for so long. If the child asks back, I am now grown up, you want to divorce, just divorce. How do you answer, scold him for being ungrateful? Children are not the weight of your marriage.
4. You can’t leave and let go, and you’re worried about STD transmission.
Playboy to balance the relationship, eat pot to occupy the bowl, inevitably have philandering disease stalking. Cheating husbands do not turn back from the track, fear of sexually transmitted diseases stained worry. If you are a clean woman, would you accept this?
5. Retaliation for an affair with an affair husband.
Well, aren’t you cheating on your husband? I follow your example and go out of the wall. To get back at your husband for being unfaithful, gamble on experiencing multiple sexes. Take retaliation by returning the favor with a tooth for a tooth. You are faithful to me, I will be faithful to you; you betrayed me, I will not wait for it. Many revengeful affairs are the most foolish acts of women. You think you can save your husband, trigger his jealousy, come back to you, or get justice, one to one to find even, revenge on your husband, but in fact is to find an excuse for him to get away. Men think it’s a shame to keep an unfaithful woman around, they’d rather throw in the towel, cuckolding is not that good.
6. Fighting with a third party in the dark.
Not willing to give up her husband to another woman. In order to give the junior color: I am the original, I just do not divorce. Little vixen, you are not robbing my husband? I will never let you get away with it. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
7. Accept the fact that the child was born out of wedlock.
The consequence of a woman’s procrastination in the face of her husband’s affair is that it is possible that one day he will bring you back an illegitimate child that is part of your husband’s blood and bones and indirectly the common property of your family. This thing will threaten you for the rest of your life. “When a husband has an illegitimate child outside, this fact will always remind the wife that her husband is a man who has cheated on her. The child will become a living marker of the man’s other life outside the home – a life that is a part of being a wife that she does not want to acknowledge. This ‘love child’ makes it impossible for the wife to deny the fact that another woman exists. A mistress with a child born out of wedlock can be a bottomless pit that eats up all of a man’s time and money.”
You have to put up with your husband spending money and time on that woman for a long time, and there’s your hard-earned money there, too. You have to put up with that woman’s scent on your husband, can you really ignore the presence of that? A woman’s intuition is spot on, but there are some things that can’t really keep your eyes closed. You want to be blind, but there are always shadows present.