The traditional family model of “male head of household, female head of household” has been perpetuated for thousands of years. They don’t go far from the village, they are in the house and the kitchen, and although they are usually given the responsibility of taking care of the family finances, they are often left to struggle with the food, the salt, and the social interactions.
Women must hold on to their financial power
The traditional family model of “men in charge, women in charge” has been in place for thousands of years. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new generation of products and services.
How many poignant stories are there about women out on the town and men in the house? The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of companies that will be able to meet the needs of their customers. Nowadays women don’t tiptoe, they pad under their heels with money! And with only a pile of money in a small home, just enough to pad a man’s toes, are you going to make your him taller, so tall you have to look up to him, or are you going to settle for padding first to reach the fabled equality?
Women don’t care about money love is hard to get off the ground
Special Edition Interviewee: Xiao Huimin, 24, Huai’an, Jiangsu, now working in Nanjing
In early 2011, the unit organized a trip to Russia, a rare opportunity with a limited number of places, and everyone was scrambling to go. My seniority is right at the bottom of the pile. In the past, I would not compete, but this year is different, I got married. My husband and I have only been working for 3 years, not much money, if we get this qualification, I am free, my husband with the group, you can save thousands of dollars, our honeymoon trip will be magnificent and cost-effective. Unfortunately, the quota of 20 people happened to be full before I was scheduled. I was really upset and ran the union every day to see if anyone had temporarily dropped out.
One day I went back to the union president and Liu, who runs the finance for the unit, came over. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market. It’s a good idea to go on a honeymoon.”
“I love you, Sister Liu!” I embraced Sister Liu with all my heart and soul. I’m sure she’s a very tall image in my mind!
Growing up, I found out that I was not the only one who had received favors from the unit. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. In short, Liu is the best person in the unit.
Later, by chance, I learned that Liu had been to Russia years ago, in a luxury version for the whole family. The opportunity she could naturally pass up.
The company’s first-ever “The World’s Best Friend” is an excellent example of how to manage money. As early as 2002, she used her family savings to buy several suites near Xinjiekou and Fuzimiao, and sold them very decisively last year when prices were about to rise to their highest point, making more than a million yuan.
If Liu didn’t have money and hadn’t been to Russia, she probably wouldn’t have been able to do something this out of the ordinary. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of companies that will be able to provide the best possible service to their customers. I hope that one day I will be able to manage my money in the same way as Sister Liu, with a lighter touch.
A woman’s family is dangerous without money
Special Edition Interviewee: Lu Lu, 27, from Dazhou, Sichuan, now working in Chongqing
The years 2005-2006 were the hardest for me. I was forced to commit suicide. But I survived at the last minute.
In 2006, when I learned about his 4-year-long mistress, I understood the truth behind all the past pain and was too distraught to hold on to it. The last few months of 2006, I was able to calm down a bit and get back to my life. I’ve wondered countless times how that woman could have controlled that selfish and conceited man to the point of obeying her, even abetting him in his attempts to get me killed while everyone was still assuming it was my fault.
Now, I don’t want to say anything wrong with him or her, but I have discovered what I did wrong, two of the most important things, one is that two people should run a business together. The first one is that the two people should work together. Too much care for the family, everything for the sake of the family, is the common problem of many women, all things are done for him and the children, over time, men feel that you pay everything is normal, one day you ask him to take his responsibility, in turn, will cause resentment. The second point is particularly important, the economic power to master, the heart of prevention can not be less. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good idea of what you’re doing. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. His own money, used to please his mistress just right. The mistress said, the money to be used before they are their own. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Listen to these words! The woman in the economic aspect absolutely must not not guard, not for nothing to do years of free babysitting, older surprisingly life is becoming a problem, at least to save to ensure their own 1 year of basic living expenses, in case of unpredictable. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have the right amount of money to pay for your marriage.
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Women don’t care about money husbands have a hard time
Special version interviewee: Zhang Lin, 28, cashier of an insurance company in Beijing
In early 2007, I fell in love with An Jun. An Jun is a company’s research and development staff, work pressure, occasionally free to accompany me to go shopping, see me buy hair cards to buy nail polish, lamented: “women to spend money is really a lot of places, or men save, buy a shirt can be worn for years! I smiled cheekily and said, “Did you forget the 3G phone you bought in Hong Kong?”
Anjun does have a shirt that he can wear for years. But he likes to party and invite guests, and he likes to play with new trendy digital products. When cell phones, cameras, PSPs, laptops ……3G phones were first introduced, he immediately went to Hong Kong to buy one. At that time, there was no 3G network in the mainland, so in order to play more with the new features of the phone, he simply stayed in Hong Kong for five days and spent nearly 10,000 yuan.
To put it bluntly, An Jun, like many men, is good at saving face. It’s true that they don’t spend money casually, but spending money casually scares people to death. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public. Usually, he would treat people to dinner and buy cheap tickets to scenic spots with his work card (or he would pay for it). The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
After getting married at the end of 2010, An Jun automatically handed over the financial power to me. The new official took office with three fires, and I set up a family financial policy, giving Anjun a fixed amount of $2,500 a month for pocket money. The first 3 months, An Jun is very uncomfortable, friends gatherings he no longer dare to grab the bill, the new cell phones on the market, can only look over the dry addiction. Finally one day he broke out: “It’s not like I can’t earn money, do we have to scrimp like this?”
I was dumbfounded, and I counted them all to him: “This month, your department went to Chambers once to sing Karaoke, and normally you would have grabbed the bill as a big loser, at least 1,500 yuan at a time. This time you follow the prevailing practice of the unit, only 200 yuan out of the share, saving 1300 yuan, colleagues will not say anything about you? This month before and after borrowing 50,000 yuan of your money did not return the ‘friend of a friend’s cousin’s classmates’ want to borrow another 20,000 yuan to the stock to cover the position. In the past, you have the courage not to borrow? Now well, in the phone play pity: old brother, my money is all by the wife control, no freedom ah.
The facts speak for themselves, and An Jun’s face showed shame as he bent over backwards to say, “You’re the greatest, wife! I finally realized that before I met you, I was simply living in a watery old society, being exploited and squeezed mercilessly!” — Oh, isn’t that the truth!
Women’s Money Management Tips
Women should act now to take the financial power into their hands, both for public and private purposes. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Getting your husband to hand over his finances
Every man is different. Some men have a dollar in their hand to spend two dollars, some have a dollar in their hand to spend 50 cents, and some have a dollar in their hand to spend just one cent.
For the first kind of men, know how to offer yourself. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. The usual allowance to him can only be slowly reduced, can not be too tightly controlled at once, in case he is angry, uncovered. In addition, to regularly report to him has accumulated two wheels of money, I believe the next two wheels for not too far away, to show his encouragement and spur. For the latter two types of men, they themselves have been frugal enough, certainly not willing to hand over the financial power, must learn to outsmart. Don’t be aggressive at first. You can pretend to go to the supermarket once in a while, deliberately forgetting your wallet, and knock a few pennies from him, so that he can mutter, “I’ve got a lot of money in my pocket and you’re out of it”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
One top tip is to report the good news, not the bad. If you have a small investment, you must share it with your husband, but if it’s a relatively small loss, it’s best not to talk about it, or find the right time to talk about it.
Crack down on men’s coffers
It’s easy to get men to surrender their financial power, but hard to get them to shake out their beloved coffers. Sometimes, these small coffers are often privately rich and make you gnash your teeth. Fortunately, not many men excel when it comes to hiding their personal money.
And look at one math senior’s own account of how he fell into his wife’s hands. “
The first time I saw the company, I was a good-looking guy ……,” he said with a long sigh. His old friend Fatty said cautiously, “Now you will not only save private money when you can use the math major, right?” He glared angrily and pointed at the fat man who had just fallen in love and said, “How can a bright and great cause like saving private money only use mathematics? Including psychology, education, economics, criminal investigation and other disciplines can be used.” The fat man obviously couldn’t understand: “A man should be bold, why should he turn in all his money?” He laughed bitterly twice, then stared at Fatty and said, “If your little lover whines to you and says, ‘Fatty brother, do you love me? If you love me, give me your salary card’, it’s strange if you don’t hand it over!” The fat man’s face suddenly appeared worried about the country and the people. He lowered his voice and said, “Fortunately, my wife is a horse’s ass and often doesn’t remember how much money is in her pocket. I do laundry diligently and get a few dozen dollars each time. If you are diligent in cleaning your room again, there are surprises everywhere under the bed and under the table.”
The fat man stared with a pair of small eyes, as if enlightened. He then said to him mysteriously, “Let me tell you where it is generally safest to put your private money. Put in the middle of the thickest “Dictionary”, the wife will not go to see, and generally will not be easily sold.” The fat man was really intrigued by his statement and asked curiously, “Interesting, is there any other place?”
“There are many places, the computer mainframe disassembled, put the money in the case, women who would think to disassemble the computer? The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem. It is a great pleasure to fight with your wife!”
The fat man suddenly squeezed up his face full of folds and smiled at me, and he had an ominous feeling. I saw the fat man fly out his cell phone and say into the phone, “Sister-in-law, you quickly go check inside the Dictionary, and inside his mainframe, there should be a lot of private money. Sister-in-law, thank you for introducing my girlfriend ah.”
His eyes spewed fire, a handful of fried peanuts whistling towards the face of this traitor ……
What women should do to manage money
Women must manage money, but to manage it smartly and wonderfully, pay attention to the following principles.
One, aim at family happiness, not the amount of the bankbook. Always remember that the purpose of a woman’s money management is to keep the family from being constrained by money and to fully enjoy the freedom it brings, not to become a slave to it.
Secondly, it is important to be mindful of the amount of money and to be careful of every cent. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Three, investment should be measured, do not be too big. The amount of cash a family needs to hold is 4 to 6 months of fixed expenses, and the rest can only be used as investment. The family’s accident protection is: monthly fixed expenses x 72, which means that it is required to maintain the original standard of living even after 6 years of accidents. The family’s annual insurance expense should not exceed 10% of the annual income, and financial management must be done to keep the income within the limits of expenditure and try to avoid negative assets.
4. It’s better to communicate more than to make up your own mind about everything. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.