Women actually do not necessarily women to be too beautiful, because beautiful may not be able to cage the heart of men. Sometimes, women must know how to be pampered, because men love pampered women. The woman can pretend to be a bird-like ambush in his spacious bosom. But how to pamper a woman is not pretentious, and get the man’s favor? Here, I came to recommend some secrets to everyone. The first thing you need to do is to take a look.
Women who can be pampered are always especially feminine, and between their hands and feet, they always make men’s hearts flutter, and women always want more love from men, and this love is like a spring of well water, inexhaustible.
But very few men always put the word love on their lips, they are more likely to express their love with their actions. The woman will begin to suspect that the man is not changed, no longer love themselves? They will think of ways to find the man is not: today why half an hour late home? Tomorrow, why did not say to their own to travel? The woman tormented the man with love and also tormented herself, while the man did not know where he was wrong, this love in the suspicion of going further and further away.
In fact, every woman was once spoiled by a man as a baby, but women do not understand the tiredness of men, think that men are born to tolerate women, and even hold the spoils of pampering, once the man accidentally neglected himself, they began to do nothing wrong, pampering, a little temper, and even The woman will start to become more and more unlovable, no man will always be so patient to coax women, especially when love into marriage, men hope that women will suddenly become understanding, men do not understand that in fact, the woman wild is hoping that he will coax, they will only think that you are not gentle enough, not considerate enough, the face of a woman all day tantrums, men have only one idea, that The only thing a man can think of is to run away.
Women are inherently weak, especially when it comes to relationships, and are more easily held by men. A friend said love is the best beauty product for women, with love women always glowing, gentle and lovely, a woman creased brow all day to do Lin Daiyu look, and will not get men’s pity, only let them think you are a burden, a woman all day nagging to do mother-in-law look, even if your nagging is love and care, will only make men feel bored.
More and more independent women in modern society, and there are even many women who do not let themselves be seen, but even stronger women have a soft heart inside and need the nourishment of love, love can be said to be a soft spot for women, and can also be said to be what women seek in their lives. of. The majority of men are not willing to marry a strong woman, because they think that strong women are used to using the strong side to people, they do not know what is gentle, which is actually a man’s idea of their own lack of confidence, a successful woman is not to turn themselves into such as a man, but to do the things of a man as a woman, can be soft and rigid.
Some people say that women should not do what they did at the age of twenty when they were thirty. Thirty is always more mature than twenty, not only in appearance, but also in substance and cultivation. Twenty years old, there may be a man willing to pay everything for you, thirty years old, please do not expect men to change anything for you, women only have a most beautiful ten years, in this decade, in addition to the full enjoyment, but also full learning, twenty years old, the man willing to pay everything for you, he may abandon you when you are thirty years old, and thirty years old know how to accommodate your man, on It may be the man who accompanies you for life. A woman should not lose her ego no matter what time it is, love is needed by everyone, but self-respect is more important. The beloved man is a kind of love, but there is no need to go wild on a negative man. If he no longer loves you, you’ll be brave enough to say goodbye. So that in his heart, you are still a beautiful sight, because men will never remember the woman they abandoned, but the woman who abandoned them he could never forget. Even if it ends, let yourself go a little more elegantly. In this world, no one can live without anyone, even if it is lost, let yourself retain a little self-respect.
Male’s opinion
In the eyes of many people, I am the so-called “I have a high salary, two houses, a Buick, in fact, I also have unknown secrets, such as tired of fighting, would like to lean on the shoulders of the wife to let the heart rest; outside held aggression and heartache, would also like to cry a lot; sometimes would like to be a child as carefree life or pampering …… but I am afraid that if my wife finds out, it will affect my “glorious” image in her mind. I know that my wife cares about me and has gone to great lengths to reduce the pressure of my work, but I always feel like screaming at her, “I’m exhausted, work is so boring, I don’t want to do it anymore.” It’s too hard to say.
The woman’s opinion
It’s hard to be a good, virtuous wife. When I see that he is troubled, I go to comfort him a few times, to be robbed by him, complaining that I am too long-winded. If I turn a blind eye, he will criticize me for not caring about him at all and just watching TV. I really don’t understand what he wants, why he is getting older, but feels smaller and smaller, and less and less resistant to stress. Last weekend, I suggested him to go to the botanical garden for a picnic with me in order to make him happy, and he promised to buy a kite and bring it along. But then, a few days later, he said he was too busy to go. This kind of backtracking has happened several times. I can’t do anything about it.