When you fall in love with a man and want to marry him, you must be mentally prepared that you are not just marrying him, you have to accept his habits and family background and social context. Be clear that the man you are dealing with is not an individual, but the group of people behind his family environment and social interactions. In addition you are also in the married life to bear the pressure of food and water. So the sweetness of the relationship before marriage may slowly disappear, so many women in the post-marriage will appear some abnormal psychology. So let’s talk about the six common wrong psychologies that women have after marriage.
Inferiority complex
Although modern society advocates equality between men and women, there is no real sense of equality. But there has never been equality in the true sense, especially in China, where there is always all sorts of fixed-talk thinking about women. The fact that women have their own jobs before marriage and can still maintain their independence; once married, many women have to be dependent on men, which makes many educated women feel a bit aggrieved and inferior. Also, after marriage, women will feel that they have depreciated in value, and the wasting of years makes them gradually old and pearly, and a strong sense of inferiority and insecurity follows, fearing that their man will be tempted by another mistress if they are not careful outside, and then they should The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Dependent on the man
Some women will continue to work after they get married, but they will not feel psychologically dependent on their husbands. Although women have money to buy clothes, but they still want to be able to shop with their husbands, and try on when their husbands can give themselves a little pertinent advice, this is just a woman dependent on her husband’s performance, and not to be fed up with her husband for fun. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
Can’t face the difference
Marriage makes The relationship between the two sexes has evolved from a purely emotional one to an interdependent one of survival, where once it was a cafe, a restaurant, a movie theater, but now it’s a matter of firewood, oil, salt, pots, pans and pans. The problem of survival also brings new interpersonal relationships based on common life, such as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, father-in-law and son-in-law, sister-in-law and sister-in-law, etc. All this makes the realistic score value much lower, and there is a short distance between it and the expected value, which makes people feel lost and disappointed by the fallout mentality.
Prone to rebelliousness
Many times The best is what you can’t get, and what you can’t get is always stirring. And once you get it and get in touch with it, you don’t cherish it. The greater the resistance from the outside world, the more obstacles, the stronger the rebellion, the more powerful the pursuit. And once you really bond, you may find that the other person is not as wonderful as you thought.
Dissatisfaction with your husband
Lovers’ contact is intermittent The distance in time and space tends to make infatuated men and women idealize and perfect each other. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
Take your family as everything
Some women take their husbands and families as everything after they get married.
They are not only the best, but also the most important. The woman who has this idea should learn to go out and see, not anti their own confinement in their own small space, or how the husband is having an affair you do not know. Although women should make the family the center, but women must have space other than the family, husband. So that when your husband is there, he can be happy and happy, and when he is not there, he can also enjoy himself. Don’t make yourself too wretched and especially clingy to your husband, which will only make him farther away.