Women are often prevented from truly enjoying sex because they are shy, for example, but are actually better able to enjoy real sex when they let themselves go. The editors of Family Physicians Online suggest that women learn these sex tricks:
The first trick: pleasing yourself is as important as pleasing the other person
The first trick: pleasing yourself is as important as pleasing the other person
indent:2em;text-align:left;”>Sometimes women do their best to match each other’s needs for fear that the other person won’t be satisfied. But sex is really a give-and-take between the two parties, and if you keep satisfying each other, the woman will end up hating the “thing”. Women should be upfront about their needs without guilt or embarrassment, because the truth is that men like women who can enjoy sex.
When a man finds that his actions bring pleasure to a woman, it turns him on more than any aphrodisiac.
Tip #2: Don’t pretend to please men
To please men men, some women can be so realistic about getting fake quality sex that men can’t tell the difference. But when they do this, they don’t think about the long-term consequences: if they don’t feel pleasure but pretend to, they are undoubtedly making the man repeat his wrong moves next time, because he mistakenly thinks that way will make women happy.
Tip 3: Don’t ignore the rest of a man’s body
Often, men seem to be able to go right in without any foreplay and enjoy it. This is actually their own misconception. Touching and teasing will turn a man on because when a woman does it, she is saying how much she likes his body. Some women will be too shy to act, but there is absolutely no man who does not like women to do so, so just go ahead and do it, and you will get visible results immediately. Touching and teasing is easy, just keep using your fingers to slide over his whole body, especially the inner thighs and nipples; sometimes touch his lower part as a tease. Also women can use their hair, tongue and eyelashes to add to the teasing effect.
Tip 4: Don’t be afraid of sexual fantasies
One woman admitted that she imagined she was having sex with Leonardo every time she had sex with her husband. This imagination makes her extremely excited, and her husband gets pleasure from her wild movements. She thinks it doesn’t matter, she can’t really have an affair with Matt Damon anyway. Experts say that sexual fantasy is healthy because not only is it a great motivator, but what happens in the fantasy doesn’t have to be true at all. For example, if a heterosexual male fantasizes about lesbian scenarios, it doesn’t mean he’s gay; a woman who imagines having sex with a man other than her husband doesn’t mean she wants to have an affair. Sexual fantasies just show that the person has a rich imagination, and it does stimulate sex.
Tip #5: Don’t stay the same
If you have sex the exact same way every night If you have sex the exact same way every night, even if you orgasm every time, it will eventually become boring. This is because there is nothing left to look forward to. In one woman’s personal experience, she was able to orgasm as long as she was on top, rubbing her hips against the man’s pussy in a circular motion. So they take this position every time they have sex, quickly reaching orgasm and then rushing to the end, with no satisfaction at all as a result.
6th tip: Know each other’s bodies
We know that everyone is different. We know that everyone is different, and the same is true when it comes to this whole sex thing. Women who have had previous sexual experience with other men sometimes use their previous ways on their current partners, which is inappropriate. So, how do you know what your partner likes? It depends on careful observation. Of course, some people will automatically express their preferences by shouting, but many may fall into the silent-is-gold category, at which point you can listen to whether his breathing quickens or draws back; whether his pupils suddenly dilate; whether his jaw drops loose; and it doesn’t take long to observe in this way to match his preferences seamlessly.
Tip #7: Love Your Body
Nine out of ten modern women feel that they are too much. Nine out of ten feel they are overweight. This type of self-deprecating view can sometimes prevent two people from having the fun they deserve when they’re naked. For example, someone who thinks her breasts are too small may feel inferior when her partner touches her breasts and subconsciously avoid his hands or direct his attention elsewhere. Over time, such signals can cause distress to the partner, thus affecting the sexual relationship. One woman trained herself to think that the fact that men were happy to sleep with her despite her small breasts was proof that they didn’t see anything wrong with her breasts. That’s how she stopped resisting her male partner’s touching her breasts.