Being a woman, you need to be smart in order to be more attractive to men in a relationship. To make him love you more, to make your relationship stronger, here are nine lies you must learn.
One of the must-tell lies for women: I won’t let you change anything
We all want the man we love to have a well-developed muscle like Schwarzenegger, a handsome face like Louis Koo, and poise like Chow Yun Fat, but telling it will undoubtedly make him sad and lamentable and ashamed of himself.
Tell him that you like his hairy beer belly because it makes you feel warm like spring in winter. Tell him you like to hear him sound like a big grizzly bear at night so you feel safe. One day if he’s out of town and you can’t hear him sounding hearty at night, you will lose sleep like a general who has been in war for a long time because you can’t hear the guns.
If you love him, tell him that you appreciate everything about him, and that his flaws are what make him tick. It’s him you love, and he doesn’t need to change in order to be married to you.
Women must tell lie number two: I like your friends
His fox friends drink heavily, chew meat loudly, have no success in their career but still talk about it, are no longer teenagers still pointing the finger at the world. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. Even if they occasionally have excellent people, you do not want to always have a light bulb to light you and your boyfriend’s intimate eyes. So what do you do? Say you don’t like them? He will think you picky, that you do not give him face, that you do not agree with his friendship and righteousness. So, how upset you are in your heart, do not say it, say it hurt his face, but also hurt his feelings. So, if you have to snack with those smelly men, learn to like them, or at least pretend to like them. Then, slowly with your schedule to eat away at his time, quietly reduce his “friendly visits” with friends and foxes. If he suddenly realizes one day that it’s been a while since we’ve met, you can smile and say, “Yeah, I really miss them.
The third lie women must tell: I’m willing to help you clean up the mess
The biggest characteristic of men is laziness, and the biggest characteristic of men’s homes is chaos. The most important thing is that you can’t just take a look at the ancient Chinese legend that men always want a little fairy to come down from the sky and clean their house and cook for them. So, for a man who is just starting to build a relationship, be sure to show your thoughtfulness, make a very understanding look and say “let me help you clean up.” Then gladly help him clean up the messy dishes and act like you love housework. This way men tend to have family-like warmth and miss you more when you are not around. Of course, this doesn’t have to last long. When his house is fresh and new, and he becomes dependent on you, it’s not too late for you to train him to do the work slowly. Start by urging him to wash his stinky socks after a workout, and tell him solemnly, “Don’t throw things away like a child.”
Woman Must Tell Lie #4: I love your family
If you’re a very lucky woman, you may see friendly eyes when you visit his parents at home. But generally speaking, when you step into his home with trepidation, you will first see the hostility in his mother’s eyes, as if you were the love rival who killed the door, and your thick-headed boyfriend knew nothing about it. He also foolishly thinks that you love him and his mother loves him, so you and his mother can love each other. Don’t think you can explain this esoteric issue to him. If he asks, tell him honestly that you love spending time with his family. If you say you don’t like it, it’s too likely to hurt his feelings. Women who have had many years of experience as daughters-in-law conclude that being friendly to his family translates into action: meet less and give more gifts. Tell him you love the people in his family, never avoid conflicts between you over family members, and lock the time to meet for birthdays or holidays.
Woman Must Tell Lie #5: I love sports
Men are crazy about sports in a way we can never understand. He always watches the TV game as soon as he gets off work and can’t take his eyes off the ball, and once he gets into bed, he grabs the “Soccer News” “New Sports” and reads it with a browbeat. He watched the Serie A (soccer league) to see the Bundesliga, watched the German (country) A to see the Spanish (Spain) A, then into the NBA round robin to see Jordan to see Yao Ming.
If you tell him you like sports too and sit down to watch soccer with him, you’ll be able to kill his world quickly. If one day you can’t stand the fact that he looks at soccer magazines every day without seeing you, you can say to him, “I love sports, and I especially love playing sports with you.
“Then you take his hand and go jogging in the park, drag him to the rivers and lakes to swim, and look to watch the sunset on the way. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new product, which will be a new product.
Women Must Tell Lie #6: You’re Right
Your boyfriend is outstanding, but always a little overbearing. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get the best out of your life. He will suddenly raise the volume on the road, for the film of a role in the acting level and you fight, you do not want to talk to him in some harmless issues on the big talk. At this moment, raise the volume and his tit-for-tat is obviously not wise, you need to give the man a little face, coax him “you are right, quite reasonable.” Temporary concessions are only for the future to better take, you will one day let him lose the heart. Wise man cloud: men are the head, women are the neck, the neck will determine the direction of rotation of the head. Men always think they know everything, control everything, but the real control is the actual woman, women can always manipulate the whole situation without moving. So, don’t bother with him.
Women must tell lie #7: I don’t mind you looking at other women
When the man’s eyes are staring straight at the redheaded girl in the supermarket, you are angry from the heart, and evil from the heart. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Once the boyfriend’s eyes “smuggled”, you want to use the air palm across the mountain like a bull will be a potential rival to hit the fly, or use the star-sucking method will boyfriend’s eyes firmly control in your square N square centimeters. The best way to do this is to tell an unspoken lie: “I don’t mind you looking at other women, and then find an opportunity to imply to him that “what you don’t want, you don’t do to others”. If he still doesn’t seem to understand, then you and he together with an exaggerated viewing posture, 24/7 scanning for passing dudes. He’ll tighten up when he senses some jealousy.
Woman Must Tell Lie #8: I don’t care how much silver you have
There are a lot of teenage, rich men in the world right now, but your boyfriend is just a shy working man in a pocket right now. You fell in love with him, not because of his bankbook, but because of him in his own right. Because he is healthy, hard-working, funny, understanding and yet faithful and reliable. You choose him because you think he is a potential stock, he will be rich, he will make the rest of your life a win-win life of material and spiritual civilization. Yes, this is your wishful thinking. But at this stage he really does not have the ability to buy you a house, buy a car, for which he often apologizes to you, complaining about his inability to make you suffer. At this moment, you have to make up a beautiful lie anyway: “I really don’t mind how much silver you have.”