There are disagreements to say, or it will become a breakup trigger; who wants to be serious at the beginning of the hookup, who loses; men who really like you don’t initiate sex…
Law One
If most of your friends don’t like the one you have, then he/she is definitely not therightone.
Law Two
Splitting and splitting, splitting and splitting, eventually.
Law Three
Three months is a hurdle. Whether a relationship should be treated as a dalliance or whether it should be taken seriously and developed, generally speaking, three months is the time to see what happens.
Law 4
There are disagreements that need to be spoken about, or they will become heart attacks, which will then turn into breakup triggers.
Law 5
A woman who is unproductive but gets a really good man will feel great about herself and everyone around her will feel great about her.
Law #6
A man who does nothing for you but picks up a really great woman will still feel like a loser and everyone around him will think he’s a loser. “
The person who does something big for you is not necessarily the one who really loves you. The company’s main goal is to provide you with the best possible service to your business. They do these things, most likely because of a moment of passion, or to get your attention and get your heart. The tragedy of many women is: “He used to do that to me, I’m afraid there is no second person in the world who can do something so romantic, his most loved woman must be me.” Wake up, as romantic as he can be to you, he can be to someone else.
The person who really loves you may never do anything “big” for you, but he does a million little things for you every day, for decades. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. …… these things, so subtle that you hardly notice. Even he himself can not notice, silently to you, has become a habit of his. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Law 7
This theorem is a potential factor that applies to many people, that is, people who make a lot of noise about how happy they are with each other, such as all kinds of selfies of the two of them posted on Douban, school, twitter, TWITTER and other media, must be divided. The reason is that true happiness doesn’t need to be shown off, both people understand it, and it doesn’t need people to come around.
I had another discussion with some people about this, and LZ ended up thinking it was perfectly fine to put a picture of the two of them together, and that it was fine to share the happiness with friends. Most people in and out of love want the world to know. I asked a boy who has a lot of photos together on FB and his explanation was: I am proud of my girlfriend and I want my friends to see how great my girlfriend is. So I think this one should be: those who put up a bunch of group photos every few days, and those who put up a bunch of group photos every few days, and one or both parties have nothing else interesting to do but fall in love, must split.
Law 8
When two people break up, once one of them finds someone new, the other one will immediately have the urge to take him/her back, even if they know in their hearts that they are not right for him/her. The law of extension: If you want your ex boyfriend to come back, crying and begging him is the most unwise thing to do. The right way is to hurry up and find a new boyfriend (not necessarily a new boyfriend, a new date is fine, the key is good quality) and look pleased and happy in front of your ex-boyfriend, who immediately cried and begged you to come back.
Law 9
If a person’s dating list is nothing but goofy, then that person is either goofy or goofy.
Law 10
Sometimes we go out and hurt someone we love not because we really want to hurt them, but just to prove to ourselves that they still care. If you don’t want to prove anything, but really want to hurt someone, the best thing to do is this: make them feel like nothing they do can hurt you. The short answer is to make them feel like you don’t even care anymore. (Tough move, use with caution)
Law 11
The way a person treats a waiter is the way they treat you after a few months of dating. Personally, I think this one is very accurate. If a person is a gentleman and forgiving to the waiter, he or she will treat the person he or she is dating more or less the same way, and if a person treats the waiter with yelling and screaming and blabbing, he or she is not likely to treat the person he or she is dating any better. Of course, excluding those who have really bad attitudes.
The Twelfth Law
Love is not about staring at each other, it’s about looking in the same direction together. If the two of you are only attracted to each other, and do not have a common expectation of life, such love will most likely only blossom, but not bear fruit. For example, you want to buy a suite and live in peace and quiet, and he / she feels that buying a house is too dumb, it is better to take the money to travel around the world. The two of you will most likely have to say goodbye.
Law 13
Whoever wants to get serious in the early stages of a hookup is going to lose.
Law 14
A man who frequently praises you and compliments you, but gives nothing to you, tell him to get lost, he must be thinking with his lower body. The first thing you need to do is to find out if a person likes you or not, not by what he says, but by what he does.
Law 15
Two weak people together may become; one strong and one weak together may also become; two strong people together will be separated.
Law 16
A man who really likes you won’t offer to get laid because they are afraid of ruining their image.
Law XVII
Two unhappy people together will only get more unhappy. Many novels and movies often depict how two unhappy people fall in love at first sight and how life suddenly brightens up. The actual life is not like this, don’t take it for granted that a partner will definitely be happy, unhappy people are generally more pessimistic, two pessimistic people together, pessimism affect each other, only to make two people more pessimistic, more depressed.
Law 18
If a relationship is at a stage where it needs to be “saved,” then it’s not far from the end.
Law 19
If a person cheats on you once, he/she will cheat on you a second time.
Law 20
If you keep making excuses for yourself, it’s mostly because you don’t love the other person enough; if you keep making excuses for the other person, it’s mostly because they don’t love you enough. For example, I must have been too busy to forget that he asked me to see a movie tonight; he must have been in a bad mood to not want to contact me, he must have been too preoccupied with work to forget my birthday, etc.
Law 21
If you obsess too much about the other person’s ex, then you’ll become an ex too.
Law XXII
Love can give the illusion of “I can’t live without him/her”, but in fact, anyone can live without anyone.
Law XXIII
If you put yourself in a humble position to beg for love, you are not destined to get true love.
Law XXIV
Even if you are in a hurry to find someone, don’t let others see it. Good quality people will be scared off by this “hunger”. Don’t reveal frequently on any of your social pages that you’re lonely and want a relationship.
Law 25
Don’t accuse men of being immature, all men have immaturity.
Law XXVI
Don’t think that a man who is not as good to you as he was at first is not loving you enough. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Law XXVII
There are really couples that can’t be broken up, and it’s useless for the mistress to try any harder.
Law XXVIII
Love, no matter how great, cannot change a person’s nature. If you meet a jerk, don’t imagine you can change him, just tell him to get lost.
Law 29
After a breakup, the one who says “Please don’t contact me again” is often the one who is still hurt.