Nowadays, with the freedom of marriage, it is popular for women to find a brother as a lover. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get a good idea of what you want to do. With the development of the economy and society, it is becoming more and more fashionable to find a younger brother lover. Is the brother lover reliable? Can two people spend the rest of their lives together? The first thing you need to do is to take a look at it.
Xiao Ling and Xiao Chen have been together for three years. Whenever you go out, the two are praised by outsiders as a good man and a good woman, Xiaoling is secretly sweet. The two of them have been in love for three years. Friends also feel that the two are very well matched, the only beauty is that Xiao Ling is as much as 5 years older than Xiao Chen. The two of them have reached a fork in the road, so to speak, and every time she thinks about it, she doesn’t feel good.
Let’s start by analyzing why sister-brother relationships are suddenly popular. Some people summarize three main reasons: First, the world has changed. The first is the fact that the company’s business is not just about the company’s business. Second, the men in life is very stressful today, they do not want to take care of others, but more want to let women take care of themselves, so, marry a sister and a small mother is a good idea, especially the actress beautiful outstanding, and money piles of cheap accounted for a great deal. Third, the influence of Europe and the United States, Japan and South Korea. According to survey statistics, in recent years, the sister-brother relationship in the UK has risen 25 times, and more than half of the young generation in Japan and South Korea adore sister-brother relationship.
According to the diary of a single woman abroad, “Men in their 30s have a lot of problems and are tiresome. They sigh all day long, have anxiety issues, and are seriously delusional, thinking that all women will try to get them to fall into the marriage trap they have devised. These days, I’m just interested in small men in their early 20s ……”
But there are obvious disadvantages to having a large woman and a small man, although age is not an issue, height is not a distance, weight is not a stress, as far as physiology is concerned, women are forty rotten tea crumbs, men are forty a flower. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Secondly, personal values are different. The first thing that I’d like to do is to take a look at the newest version of the book, which has been updated to a year. The two of them are only a few years apart, but their childhood and teenage fashions, lifestyles, and circles are very different, which naturally affects their personal approach to life and the pursuit of life.
Also, a young personality is not mature. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem. The actual fact is that the actual person is not a person, but a person who is not a person. Doing the wrong thing not to admit, want you to clean up the mess, can not bear the burden of marriage. This completely defeats the purpose of a woman coming into a marriage in the first place.
Lastly, there is the pressure from family and friends. Although sibling relationships are an emerging fad, though it’s inevitable that onlookers will look at the relationship with an interested eye. If they break up, then they will sigh: I should have known it would end up like this. If the two have been together, they seem to be watching a TV show in anticipation of something. Plus the older generation is more conservative, it is likely that they can not accept this rebellious feelings, if the man can not stick for the feelings, then as a woman can only fall full of injuries. At this point, it really is a chicken and egg situation.
But theoretically, the ideal marriage model is the “big woman, small man” model.
A social survey on divorce rates found that 2/3 of divorces are directly related to sexual dissonance! This indicates that sex plays a pivotal role in marriage and family. The first time I saw a woman, I was able to see that she was a woman.
The combination of similar age is the most common in life, generally have more than a decade of “sexual gold” period, to both into the age of confusion, sexual harmony will be more or less discounted, the marriage is also the most likely to be born of the turbulence.
So the combination of a 30-year-old man and a 40-year-old woman should theoretically be ideal, because both are in their physical and psychological maturity. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
For men, than mom new wave, experienced, not preachy; sister slightly plump, sister thin, malnourished, sultry and charming; Bao sister than Lin sister sweet mouth; have a sense of security, not pretend, sister will coax people happy, considerate people. “Find a woman older than yourself as a partner”, in recent years in many young men gradually become fashionable. The standard of choosing a spouse has subconsciously changed, and the traditional young and beautiful is being replaced in the minds of more and more men by pragmatism like “maturity, purity, femininity”.
A woman who is physically, mentally, and personally mature has the most appeal to men. The vase type of little girl is obviously not suitable, while women who already have some life experience tend to be able to go in and out with themselves.
If we look at it from a purely female beauty point of view, it is of course better to be young, but the charm of a sister’s experience, wisdom, warmth, and even the dark fragrance of accumulated fat is what men want, what some call the “deep fragrance of ripe apples” rather than the superficial flowing fragrance of flowers.
Nowadays, men are big and tired, they are more eager for this kind of plump embrace, and the sister’s understanding tenderness can relieve men’s inner stress and suppression, which has a good therapeutic effect.
So, sister-brother relationships can be subject to a lot of all kinds of pressure compared to relationships of similar age, but this age gap can be good for the longevity of the two.
Whether the woman is older than the man or the man is younger than the woman, the essence of love remains the same, and that is that they truly love each other. The standard for judging a good partner will not change either, and that is to feel relaxed and happy with him, as if you have found another good view of life. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.