A man especially needs encouragement and affirmation from a woman during sex, and if he satisfies you, then you have to let him know his accomplishment in time. If he makes some mistakes, you have to give him enough comfort and encouragement so that he gets more and more frustrated. But there are 17 things women should never say in bed, even if you don’t mean to say the wrong thing, which can seriously affect a man’s quality of sex.
1. When he’s getting hot
You say. “I haven’t figured out if I want it yet.” — If you really don’t want it, be ready to hint to him before you see him, not before you get to the bedside;
2. When you’re one step away
You suddenly say, “Your bed is so dirty and messy! How can you lie on it in this condition?” — you can glance at his bed and physically lead him toward the couch without actually saying it, which would make him awkward;
3. When you kiss passionately
You say, “Your mouth stinks, go brush your teeth!” — you can gently say; “Honey, I just had dinner and I haven’t brushed my teeth yet, wait for me, okay?” And then naturally pull him to the bathroom with you;
4. When you’re passionate
You say, “Ha, you have the same underwear as my ex-BF!” — anything that reminds him of your ex-BF should not be mentioned, even as a hint, and something as intimate as pantyhose is especially obvious;
5. When he’s in not good
You say, “It’s okay, it’ll be better next time.” — If you think this kind of encouragement will work, you’re mistaken. It’s better to keep quiet when he’s really underperforming, and to fake encouragement and reassurance is akin to covering your ears;
6. When he does well and asks how you feel
You say, “It’s okay”- -You can say, “Good is good, bad is cheating, there is no need to give a vague answer, it will make him suspect that he is not satisfying you at all;
7. When he wants you to suck his dick and you don’t want to
You say, “That’s disgusting! Don’t dream about it!” — Don’t push yourself if you’re not good at it or don’t like it, but don’t make a big deal out of this his-approved way of having sex either; now is not the time to criticize;
< strong>8. When he excitedly asks you if you’ve reached orgasm
you say, “What did you say? I didn’t hear you clearly ……” – rather than not answer, don’t ask something like that, it will immediately make him feel that you are actually so inattentive and don’t care about his voice;
9. When he gets naked in front of you for the first time
you say, “Honey, you’re so It’s so small (and soft) ……”-a forbidden word that any fool knows. Never cross this line;
10. When he gently strokes your skin
You scream, “Why are your hands so rough?” — No way, men aren’t all that delicate, so don’t say it as long as you’re not so unbearable;
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You frown and say, “Ouch, that’s not the right spot, you can’t touch it like that!” — don’t talk, just use your hand to guide his hand to the right sensitive part;
12. When he’s ready to make love to you
You say with a big grin, “I don’t like to use a condom.” — he’ll suspect that you don’t know enough about the health of sex, that you’re not afraid of getting a disease, but he is;
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You say, “My period isn’t over yet, why don’t we use a towel to pad it?” — and while some men will not care about that, as far as most men are concerned, it will give him an immediate sense of pounding dirt.
14. When you’re done talking about how you feel
You say. “You did well. …… My ex-BF and I did 2 hours.” — that’s a super blow! He’ll feel like he’s in a race with an invisible man and lost …… himself
15, when you’re having sex
< p style="TEXT-ALIGN:left;TEXT-INDENT:2em">You yell, “FUCKME!” or “COMEON, BABY!”- -You’re not a porn heroine, so don’t think that kind of exaggeration will turn a guy on;
16. When he’s on top of you
You say, “Honey, I want to go buy those diamond earrings tomorrow, okay?” — as much as he would love to buy those diamond earrings for you, he wouldn’t like to talk about sex and earrings together, is that the deal? If he’d been tougher and pulled out $10,000 right after sex: You go buy those earrings! You’d die of embarrassment!
17. When you’re aggressive and he’s very appreciative
You ask. “Which is better kung fu, me or your past girlfriend?” –what a dilemma to answer: deny you? Or deny her? You know, most men don’t even remember how the last one performed when they have sex with the next one.