Men often pursue women with the clear purpose of establishing a relationship. The initial stage of contact between the two sexes is that men are attracted to each other’s appearance, which arouses his desire to conquer, so men will put women first in the process of pursuit.
In the relationship between the sexes, it is widely believed that men only want to find beautiful women in love and men want to marry ladies when they get married, which in my opinion is superficial.
The most important thing is that you can get a good idea of what you are looking for.
Men temporarily can not get the woman will produce “sweet grapes” psychology
In fact, most men’s real dream girl is the kind of virtuous wife and mother, pure love and pink girl in one woman, both beautiful and seductive, both pure
The real dream girl for most men is a woman who is both beautiful and seductive, both pure and slutty, both maternal and daughterly.
Only, this kind of chameleon-like, mysterious and unpredictable ideal woman exists only in the fantasy world that men make up out of thin air. The more you get, the more you want to get, not afraid to do it, but afraid to think about it. Men as wild animals, always curious about the unknown world and curiosity, the more hidden he is the more excited, the more inscrutable he is the more up and down, the more uncertain he is the more tracking pursuit, which actually reveals a potential love psychology of men: he is always hidden, inscrutable, uncertain women to maintain a strong interest – – I call this woman, “the mystery of the woman. -I call this woman “three not” woman. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Not long ago, an 80-year-old girl who had just fallen out of love came to me and said that she had taken great care of her boyfriend during the three years she had been in love, and that she had gone to his dormitory every day after work to help him clean and do laundry and cook, no matter how cold it was. In the daytime, as long as the boyfriend a phone call, no matter when and where, she will be like a good kitten dash to his side. The first thing you need to do is to go out shopping and buy all the men’s clothes in the bag, her explanation is: “I can’t help it, who told me that my heart is full of him! This year is ready to get married, but the boyfriend suddenly a “no feelings” let her grief and anger, the original heartless boyfriend moved on. “I was told that he had fallen in love with a new female colleague in the unit, the woman ignored him, but he was obsessed with chasing each other, the more people do not take him seriously, the more he came. I am devoted to him and obedient, but he always say very annoying, no feeling, how men are like this ah, simply incomprehensible! At the end, she drew a big exclamation mark in her tone!
It is clear that Fanny’s boyfriend is in love with a woman who is “three no’s”.
It is clear that Xiaofen’s boyfriend is in love with a woman of “three no’s”. If you compare it with a good woman like Fanny, there is no doubt that the “three not” woman is more lethal to men. In other words, the “three no’s” are more in line with the man’s cheap psychology.
“Cheap” seems to be a word that people use to scold people, where it first came from is untraceable, but it has a long history anyway. The definition of this word is “an act of knowing that the consequences will be bad but doing it anyway”, which literally does not have any malicious intent, but is purely an “adjective”, and I don’t know when it became a curse word.
Psychologists have pointed out that there is a subconscious mentality of being cheap: what you can’t get is always the best, and what you can get is often not cherished. The first time I saw the film, I thought it would be a good idea to see it.
It should be said that both men and women have an infinite imagination for this kind of unpicked “grapes” because they can’t get it, so they glorify it and even idealize it. Women are passive by nature, can not think about it, but not men, the nature of wild animals are always reminding them to take the initiative, to know the difficulties, to meet the challenge. In the past, there is a view that people do not get things have a “sour grapes” mentality, in fact, in the face of temporarily unavailable women, men in turn have a kind of “sweet grapes” mentality, or how men love to say “
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If you look deeper into the “bitchy” mentality of men, you will find that it has to do with the most fundamental psychological differences between the two genders.
I think the most fundamental difference between men and women is the difference between proactivity and passivity. Clearly, men are more proactive and women are more reactive. This difference stems first from the different physiological structures of the two sexes: men’s sexual organs are exposed, women’s are deeply hidden; men and women make love, men take the initiative to penetrate, women passively accept; before marriage, men are the ones who take the initiative to court, women are the ones who wait to pursue, and after marriage, it is also the men who are in charge and the women who are in charge. The scene at the ball is a realistic reproduction of the truth that men attack women: the man to choose his favorite partner and take the initiative to invite her to dance; the woman sits on the side, quietly paying attention to the manners of those who come to invite, she can accept, or refuse. In romance novels, a girl with romantic feelings is also in full expectation of her heart’s Prince Charming from the sky. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the company’s customers to meet their needs.
The satisfaction of male sexual desire is also dominated by initiative and aggression. The man only gets a great thrill when he initiates the attack, much like a general in command of a siege. Freud used to use a set of military terms when describing male sexuality, such as: conquest, surrender, control, and occupation. In this regard, Freud’s explanation is that male active sexual behavior is closely related to conquest and aggression. Some psychologists point out: men appreciate the soccer game, see the player shot the moment the most excited, but also some men will somehow see the war and killing scenes will also produce pleasure, where the initiative to attack and violent aggression painted on the equal sign, this is the nature of the male animal. The man’s masculinity will only be released to the maximum if he keeps going forward.
In the love field, men are more like hunters, they prefer to treat their beloved women as prey and enjoy the thrill and excitement of the chase. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The aforementioned Fanny reason for her boyfriend to produce “bored” emotions and even “no feeling”, is that she is too active to show good, so he gradually became less like a hunter. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
There is a saying that a man can often chase the woman he likes, but a woman often can’t get the man she loves. The reason is simple, men are not afraid to go over the mountains, the more dangerous the road will be the more will stimulate his endless desire to conquer; and the woman too much to pay will lead to the loss of responsibility of men, he increasingly do not cherish. This is the man’s “cheap” psychology: you are good to him, he does not think; you are not good to him, but he is always concerned about you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Men often pursue women with the express purpose of establishing a relationship. The first stage of contact between the two sexes, he will be attracted to each other’s appearance, arousing his desire to conquer, so in the pursuit of the process of the man will put the woman in the first place, will also show their best side, in order to get the woman’s heart. But as soon as the relationship becomes stable, the pace of his pursuit will slow down, or even stop, his enthusiasm suddenly fell from the peak to the bottom. It is said that men’s romance begins with love at first sight and ends with mutual determination for life is this truth. So how to let the man from beginning to end to keep you high enthusiasm, to maintain a permanent romance? The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.