In a sea of people, it is very rare to meet someone you like, so no matter what you should boldly try to pursue, although the saying “women chasing men across the veil”, but sometimes this veil is very thick.
How to increase the success rate of female chasing male?
1. Can a woman take the initiative to confess her love or not?
There are some girls, not afraid to confess, but unwilling to confess. Because they often hear people say that women can’t be too active, otherwise they will spoil men and make them think you are humble.
In fact, we often say that women can not be too active, in no way means that women can not confess to men, boldly say their own ideas; but after being rejected by the other side, the woman also time and time again to pursue, look at the man’s face to act, such behavior, only to spoil the man The company’s main goal is to make him feel that you are lowly.
The reason why people express their love is because they want the other party to understand their own mind, so that he also comes to love you, since the action can not let him understand, then why not express their feelings, so that the other party clearly understand? The active confession of a party, and did not show how humble, accept the confession of a party, there is nothing to show off. It’s not as hard as you think, really.
When the years are calm and love is stable, perhaps friends around you will still ask from time to time: who was chasing who at the beginning? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing.
2. Since you are timid, you might as well choose a place where no one is around
In fact, not all confessions have to be made in the presence of people, and if the other party agrees there is nothing wrong with that, but if you reject it you will be very embarrassed. In contrast, since your heart only want to say to him, why not find a place where no one, quietly pour out your love, or really dare not, why not simply send a text message to him. If you don’t agree, no one will know except you and him; if you agree, it’s not too late to show off to your friends.
3. Confessing your love is a serious matter
Friends around you
Friends around you may give you tips on how to confess your love when you’re drunk, when you have more guts and can say you were confused if the other person refuses; others say it’s better to confess on April Fool’s Day, and if you refuse, say you were joking and save some face.
Firmly speaking, both approaches are unwise and tend to make the other side think that your confession is just a casual joke, or even make men think that you are not serious about your relationship. The same is true for smart men who will effortlessly reject you: sorry, you were really drunk at the time! After that, no matter how you then explain, he used this as a reason to make you look very passive. The first thing you can do is to take it seriously, and you can be indifferent in your heart, but you should at least present a very serious attitude.
4. There’s no need to force him to say yes and no.
The intent of the confession is more to express your love for him, not to force him to say yes or no. Even if he rejected you at first, you do not have to be furious or even blackmail each other, causing great psychological pressure on each other. If the two of you get into a standoff, it will in turn leave him with no choice.
A smart woman will give a man plenty of time to think about it before the other person decides: you may not know me very well before, so you don’t have to rush to reply, if you can, why don’t we go out for a while and make a decision when you have thought it over. A smart woman will imply everything to understand why she chose to fall in love with him, what about him fascinates her, and then speculate about his concerns from his tone of voice. In the following days, a woman should try to remove the other person’s worries and doubts and make him feel that being in love with her is a good deal.
This way, the other party will naturally become upset and change his attitude towards you. The whole situation, once again, is completely held by the woman.
5. The success of the confession is predetermined
No matter where
Whether the place is a romantic restaurant or under a bridge, whether the token is a carriage rose or a text card, whether the means is subtle and twisted or straightforward, it won’t make much difference to the outcome of the confession, and it’s his impression of you and what you’ve done before that will be the key to success.
In reality, we see that even if some men kneel down and beg, women may ignore them, and some boys have candles all over the dormitory floor and rose petals all over the floor, and it is not uncommon for the other side to reject them as usual; and if two people are already happy with each other, holding hands in the The two of them are in love with each other, holding hands on the road to talk a few words, they can be private life. As I said, the form of confession is not important, the preparation done before is the most important.