1. If you confess to a girl you like and she refuses, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you, maybe she’s shy or wants to see your sincerity; she agrees, it doesn’t mean she’s casual, it’s because she also likes you and is waiting for you to ask.
2. If a girl likes you, you have to be clear about your feelings, like her and be with her, but don’t play with her feelings by stepping on multiple boats, it will be more than worth it; if you don’t like her, don’t say yes because you are bored or don’t care, then you will hurt her and maybe hurt yourself.
3. She is being capricious and even unreasonable with you, not because she is really unreasonable, but because she wants to pamper you and let you coax her and make her feel pampered. And you should know that she is doing this because she trusts you a lot, relies on you a lot, and cares about you a lot.
4. Just because she doesn’t initiate a message or call you doesn’t mean she doesn’t care about you and doesn’t want you, she just wants you to reach out to her and make her feel like you care about her and will think of her first.
5. When she gives you something on some holidays and says she bought it randomly, you must thank her because it was something she put a lot of thought into preparing and just pretended it didn’t matter because she was afraid you wouldn’t like it.
6. If she compliments another guy or looks at another guy in front of you, it’s not that she’s seeing someone else, it’s that she wants you to be jealous of her and wants to know how important she is to you.
7. If she is unhappy, you don’t have to buy her something or comfort her with a lot of words you don’t even understand, just hold her and let her feel your presence and feel your warmth, she will somehow cave in and feel at ease.
8. If you frequently contact other people of the opposite sex, she knows about it, and although she pretends that she doesn’t care, she is actually sour inside, but just doesn’t want to show it, afraid that you will say that she is hypersensitive and unreasonable, and then start arguing.
9. She didn’t act as happy as you thought she would be when you were nice to her. It’s not that she couldn’t feel your goodness, but she didn’t know how to express it, but inside she must have been touched by your goodness.
10. If you find that she intends to deceive you, it is a well-intentioned lie, because she is afraid that the more she aims, the darker it will get, and you will misunderstand. You have to believe her that she loves you and doesn’t want you to be hurt.
11. If you have had an argument and she is still in tears, it is not that she is trying to be cheeky and unreasonable, but that she is compromising, and you try to coax her and she will be obedient to you (a reasonable request).
12. She doesn’t ask you about your past, not because she doesn’t want to know, but because she is afraid that you haven’t completely let go of it in your mind, because you can be honest about your past, then you will definitely tell her.
13. If she always compares herself to girls you’ve dated in the past, then you should never think that she is counting on your past, just that she doesn’t have enough confidence in herself, and you need to reassure her by telling her how much you love her.
14. When you ask her what she wants to eat or where she wants to go and she says whatever, she’s not being perfunctory, but she’s trying to accommodate you and let you decide.