The so-called marriage is a war without smoke and mirrors, is to dig in and use all kinds of means, first in the momentum to calm each other, and then soft and hard to knock each other down. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Dead end #1: The belief that mediocre happiness is true.
After the relationship between a man and a woman in love is established, the feelings heat up quickly, and each other are eager for two people to go on for a long time and live their lives in a down-to-earth manner. There are too many illusions of love, and the apparently longed-for life is uneventful, but in reality it is difficult to maintain.
After a long time of mediocrity between two people, it is easy to be attracted by the temptation and excitement of the outside world, and to impatiently take your own steps and run to the world you aspire to, and this is when the marriage cracks.
The desire for an uneventful life is actually wonderful, and this desire stands on this foundation: you love me as deeply as I love you, you steadfastly cherish me as I love my life, and our love is as sweet as honey and blooms like a hundred flowers. Only when this foundation is laid, and this foundation is stabilized for a long time, then this love is alive and well for a long time. In the process of laying the foundation and strengthening it, we are actually taking the trouble to please each other, repeatedly evoking mutual appreciation and love for each other.
Dead end #2: Believing that loving someone means trusting them completely.
When love blooms, women are not much sensible, they are prone to defeat themselves and keep convincing themselves that an otherwise ordinary man is a Buddha, worshiping him, looking up to him, trusting him, and completely The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers. It is only when this man is withdrawn from her life one day that she vaguely feels the marrow of her bones ache, her nerves go bad, and her whole world collapse.
Women in marriage should trust their husbands, but more than that, they should trust themselves, believing that he can be the whole of life or just a part of it. So, in the marriage to learn to be independent, but also to learn to small women. If you stand by this man’s side, only then will he see your glory. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Dead end #3: Believe that forgiveness can win back a cheating heart.
In the past, we buy any product that has a shelf life and a repair period, and the same is true for marriage. The actual fact is that the actual person has a certain shelf life, when there is a person has a cheating, then the shelf life even expires, at the same time the repair period also expires. Before the shelf life, the man will more or less do something wrong, breaking your heart, such as not as careful as before, not as considerate as before. The reason why the warranty is still valid is because he is still faithful to your marriage.
When a person cheats and the repair period of the marriage expires, if for various reasons one of them forgives the other, but this forgiveness of the cheating is a torture for each other. Each other, will be mutual suspicion and suspicion, it is better to get together, at least recall, feelings will not be so bleak, not to let their lives suffer too much pain. Marriage is a responsibility, because love and come together, when one day love no longer exists, then it will also perish. Don’t leave a message, don’t cheat yourself, face reality, is the best way to forgive yourself.
The world of love is ultimately for two people, although the marriage is filled with all kinds of pressures. No one can really take away and destroy a person’s love, unless it is not well managed and hitched. Marriage, like those flowers and plants, needs to be cared for, pruned, and irrigated with care. The best way to keep your marriage fresh is to take a step forward in what kind of marriage you desire and start preparing the materials to create the ideal state of marriage you want, and the other party will naturally follow in your footsteps to help you achieve the “marriage project”.