Women are looking forward to committing their lives to a man who is both handsome and kind, but unfortunately, you can’t have it both ways. The best of both worlds is always rare and hard to come by.
Day in and day out, you worry about him being broken into
When you go out with him, you are often afraid to leave your boyfriend halfway, and in restaurants, you are even afraid to go to the bathroom for fear that another woman will take advantage of the situation. Today’s girls are so powerful that they are not pursuing men, they are launching love terrorism attacks on men, and they are using “weapons of mass destruction”. In the past, women traded their beauty for money and social status; today, women are independent, and they are using their social status and humor to conquer men.
If you “conquer” him and then worry about him being “conquered” by someone else every day, this insecurity makes most women only dare to look at beautiful men from afar, not close to them.
Will he love only himself?
Some handsome men have an obvious “narcissism”. The first thing you need to do is to take a look in the mirror, and you will never forget to look at yourself in the elevator or in a restaurant. The first thing you need to do is to take a look at your girlfriend and put her on the back burner, out of sight.
In life, people always like good-looking children, and from kindergarten to school, teachers unconsciously give more attention to pretty children. In the family, parents are also biased toward pretty children. So women always worry: will the pretty man around them love only himself?
Beauty doesn’t last
There’s a popular “schoolboy” in high school who looks a lot like Lin Zhiying (twitter). The other day I met him on the street, and I couldn’t recognize him: he was in his thirties, and he was already getting fat, his facial skin was sagging, and wrinkles were creeping up mercilessly at the corners of his eyes, so where could I find the shadow of the jade tree? On the contrary, then very inconspicuous boys have a tendency to preserve the quality of 30 years. Beautiful men and beautiful women, like the petals of a flower, beautiful and fragile. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
If he has a bad temper ……
When I was in college, a girl in the same dorm fell in love with a cool-looking, eccentric “male school girl”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. So much for the “male school girl” or a temper, the slightest displeasure will change color, slamming the door and go, so angry that the girl often wash her face with tears. But when he came back, smiling like a flower to say a “sorry”, the girl broke into tears and smiled. The good-looking man grew up to be liked by his parents and teachers, and even if he was bad-tempered, it was easy to be forgiven for doing something wrong. I like this guy, too, but seeing as he has such a “personality”, imagine if I were in that girl’s position, I’d save my breath.
Victim of “love at first sight”
Seeing a man’s handsome face, I immediately thought he would be a Harvard senior, or the only son of a billionaire, or at least a deep thinker, so I fell head over heels in love with him. The first thing I did was to fall in love with him, and in the end I found out that he was just a cat with a tiger’s head.
Except in TV shows and Hollywood blockbusters, how is it that most women in real life rarely get to see a truly beautiful man, both inside and out? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
I don’t dare to be his girlfriend
There are two reasons:
One, I don’t know what I have to look like and how much money I have to be able to afford the “good looks” around me, to be able to
One, I didn’t know what I would look like, how much money I would have, to be able to stand next to him and be judged by people;
Two, I was afraid that I would walk down the street and become a street rat and all my fellow women would want to degrade me.
The first one is to say that the “pretty boy” is not the only one who has a good chance of getting a job.