(a) The career-oriented mentality of choosing a spouse
In fact, everyone is willing to pay attention to this point, and they all hope that their object can become a pillar of talent, and be outstanding in their work and career, but due to various factors, at present, there are not many people with this mentality of choosing a spouse. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
They see their work performance and career progress as the greatest joy in life. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of companies that will be able to meet the needs of their customers. This kind of love is eternal because of the eternal nature of career.
(2) The pursuit of spiritual satisfaction in choosing a spouse
With the progress of social civilization and the improvement of people’s cultural quality, there are more and more people with this swelling psychology of choosing a spouse, they focus on each other’s thoughts and feelings, moral quality, personality and hobbies, etc., and pursue communication and emotional harmony with each other.
As long as they are spiritually happy and satisfied, it doesn’t matter if the other party is not in good financial condition, physical condition, etc.
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(3) The money first mentality
This type of mentality is more common, especially in economically backward areas. They put the other party’s economic status in the first place, and their marriage is to get a comfortable nest that can satisfy them with food, clothing, housing, and play, or to lend a hand to survive.
This kind of marriage based on material and money is not solid because economic conditions can change, and it often loses the attraction that unites their hearts and minds because the other party loses their generous material conditions, so they have to go their separate ways.
(4) Political marriage
This mentality of choosing a spouse was quite common in feudal society, and they used marriage to open up their career path or consolidate their nepotism in the officialdom, the so-called political marriage.
Nowadays, although this kind of mentality is not common, there are still many people who use it for other purposes, and they do not focus on the emotional and psychological compatibility of the two, let alone the soulmate, but put the ulterior motives hidden behind the marriage in the first place. This kind of love is equally unreliable.
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(e) The psychology of choosing a spouse based on appearance
This psychology occupies a very important place in youth
This mentality is very important among young people, all of them want their objects to be more beautiful, more handsome, which is the common sense, but if they pursue this appearance beauty, so often go astray. The love that arises from the other person’s beautiful appearance is short-lived.
As the years go by, love also disappears as appearance ages. As Goethe said, “Beauty on the outside pleases only for a moment; beauty on the inside endures.”
(6) The psychology of choosing a spouse with too many criteria
Some people choose their spouse by setting a series of criteria in advance, with a lot of rules and regulations, where they do not meet one or two of them, even if they like all other aspects, are not under consideration. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
(vii) The game love mentality of mate selection
People with this mentality are a minority. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.