Nowadays, we often hear many women friends complain about their boyfriends. “The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. He always closed his eyes, not even look at me, sometimes even called out the name of others ……”; “Every time you see a colleague’s girlfriend, he always shine, always keep praising other people’s girlfriends this good that good, but to me but only full of mouth
In fact, this is just a matter of looking far and looking near. The men see all the advantages of someone else’s girlfriend, in her boyfriend’s view, also has many of the same shortcomings. Many relationships do not have flaws, what is missing is that men do not have the mindset and eyes to appreciate relationships ……
Men, for the most part, have the common problem of pursuing good girls, freshness, and new opposites. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Why do men like other people’s girlfriends and not feel anything for their own?
First of all, the perspective is different
For their own girlfriends, the quiet fading of time slowly wears away the passion of the past. That once full of merit is gradually losing its color in a pair of eyes that stare at it closely. And because of the compatibility of the curtain towards the curtain, those once unseen mottles stand out. Gradually, the girlfriend full of advantages becomes full of disadvantages. And other people’s girlfriends, because they are merely far-sighted, all you see are advantages.
Compared to the two, your own girlfriend is getting worse and someone else’s girlfriend is getting better. This makes some men feel less and less about their own girlfriends and more and more appreciative of other people’s girlfriends.
This is a good example of the saying – it’s easy to love each other and hard to get along. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In fact, it’s just a matter of looking farther and looking closer. The other person’s girlfriend, who you see as all good, has just as many flaws in her boyfriend’s eyes. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not in love with you, but you don’t have the mindset and eyes to appreciate it. For the girlfriend, you have to discover her beauty, enlarge her beauty. It has been said that there is no lack of beauty in life, what is lacking is discovery.
The second is the psychology of seeking new and different
Their girlfriend, after a long time, has no more novelty. The days are long and the passion is diluted by time. And other people’s girlfriends, because they do not get, always feel fresh. There will always be infinite reverie, that body, that skin, that every possible detail, will bring infinite passion. This psychology of seeking freshness and wanting to experience different feelings is the reason why most men fantasize about other people’s girlfriends.
So, women, change your hair, clothes, bed skills, etc. from time to time to give your boyfriend a different experience, so that your boyfriend is always fresh and excited about you.
Three is the psychology of conquest
For those how they see how good someone else’s girlfriend is, getting her heart is a conquest. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. This desire to conquer is a man’s unique dominance, but also to affirm their own and inspire self-confidence and passionate performance. The more you have to do, the more you want to get, and the more you can’t get, the more you have to get.
For men’s conquest mentality, women may want to try occasionally rejecting your boyfriend and being pampered so that your boyfriend doesn’t get what he wants so easily. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The man will have a great sense of satisfaction.
Four is to stimulate a sense of accomplishment
After experiencing a new, satisfied desire to conquer, the passion that was induced will be eager to experience the next, and then the next, and then the next new. This new and different again and again, will let those men again and again to get the pleasure of conquering others, and these will let them more and more sense of accomplishment. Some even set goals for themselves, targeting certain people, or reaching a certain number.
A lot of women nowadays buy a lot of uniforms because their boyfriends have this kind of complex. Women are willing to play many different roles for men to conquer and satisfy their sense of novelty and accomplishment.
It’s not good to judge the morality of adult sex, of this complex for men. The fact that people have the right to have sex and seek their rights is right, and there is nothing wrong with certain ideas and behaviors that burst forth from the depths of human nature. However, as an important part of life, marriage or relationship still needs to be stable.
Likewise, society needs stability. You are always staring at someone else’s girlfriend, and your girlfriend may be staring at someone else. While you are whispering about having gifted another man with a cuckold, you may have been firmly fastened with a string of cuckolds.
So men should never put this complex into action for themselves, and women, too, should find a way to keep their boyfriends firmly on their side.