The ordinary, simple post-70s women around us have a lot to say about this: “We are not the big S. We are as beautiful as a flower child who never ages. The most important thing is that the company’s products and services are not only available in the market, but also in the market.
A year ago, the Academy of Social Sciences made a series of predictions about future marriage trends in China, one of which was that sister-brother relationships would be popular. It’s not too long ago that the latest marriage report for 2011 showed that Chinese people are becoming more and more accepting of sibling relationships. Most people think it’s no big deal for women to be big and men to be small.
The most recent report on marriage in 2011 showed that Chinese people are more and more accepting of sibling relationships.
However, the ordinary and simple post-70s women around us have something to say about it: “We are not the big S. We are as beautiful as a flower, and our words do not age. The most important thing is that you can find a young man who is too insecure. There is no security of marriage, do not want to stop!”
This brings to mind a recent hit drama, “You Are My Brother,” in which the older brother marries a wife seven years older than him. Although at first he did not feel any gap between each other, but the days are long, watching his wife getting older and older, which is annoying to any man’s heart. The wife said to him sentimentally, “You are still a young man, but I am already old …….”
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Many people feel that age, not a barrier to love, is a barrier to marriage. Sibling love is no problem, sibling marriage is a different story. The woman’s relationship has come to an end, the big deal is to talk about it, a sister-brother marriage if it fails, the blow and pressure the woman has to bear is bound to be greater.
There was a 70-year-old woman who talked to me, a woman in the advertising industry who was floating in Beijing, confessing that she earns 300,000 yuan a year, has a car and a house in Beijing, and has been busy with her career to delay her lifelong event, and is 36 years old this year, still alone. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
Not marrying someone younger than me.
I’m not going to marry a man younger than me. I don’t feel safe with a younger man.
Not to marry someone who earns less than me. A man who earns less than his wife is prone to psychopathy.
Not marrying an only son. As a daughter-in-law of an only son, the future relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more difficult.
Do not marry someone in the advertising industry. It is easy to get aesthetic fatigue when people in the same industry get married.
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She’s hard on these requirements, which one she can’t meet, absolutely no marriage!
I sucked in a breath of cold air: “So do you think that a man with such good conditions as this needs to wait until he is almost 40 years old and still can’t find a daughter-in-law?”
The leftover women of the post-70s, although no longer young, are often stuck in the 18-year-old stage of their marriage mentality: always feeling like the princess of the world, always feeling like they can unconditionally pick every man in the world!
Returning to the topic, although sister-brother relationships are becoming more and more popular nowadays, there is an obvious finding in the work: the women who can accept sister-brother relationships and eventually make it work are still mainly the post-80s group, and the post-70s leftover women, it is very difficult to accept a marriage with a woman who is big and small.
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This is because post-80s girls, who are not too old and still have the capital of youth, are still confident about their own conditions, and when they meet a man who is a little younger than them and feels right, they basically don’t think too much about their age. The woman after 70 is different, one, they are no longer young, and age, is an important source of inferiority complex; two, after more than a decade of work accumulation, most of them also have small savings, than their own small men, often in the beginning of the career stage, the material base is certainly lacking. 70 leftover women face these men who have nothing, always panic, afraid that the other party is for material purposes with
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This is also true. The fact is that there are many friends around who do emotional counseling work, and when we usually get together to talk, there is a consensus that more and more young but unsuccessful men want to find a woman who is older than they are, but more materially affluent as a companion. They could care less about each other’s age, as long as they can help him ease the stress of material life together.
In a city with high prices and high prices, many men, too, want a “softer” meal. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Because, money, you can give women a sense of security, but money, is also a source of insecurity for women. A single woman who has some small savings, married, will also become more of a problem.
In fact, it has always been felt that the fundamental way to solve the marital problems of the leftover women after 70 is to choose a sister-brother relationship. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The actual success rate of the leftover women is not really high.
Everyone keeps thinking that the killer of sibling relationships is age, and that may not be the case. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
The key to the success of sister-brother relationships is in the woman, as long as a woman does not feel like an old woman at all times, not with a pessimistic attitude, inferiority complex to look at married life, and actively give themselves more fun in life, then, no matter how many years she lives, no matter how many years older than her husband, this optimism and self-confidence, but also always the most invincible competitiveness!
Sisters after 70, don’t always say “no” to sister-brother relationship, in marriage, the mentality, always more important than age!