In which a girl is in a relationship with a guy, there is always a doubt because it always feels like the guy can’t keep up with his frequency, doesn’t know why he’s angry, and doesn’t know what he really wants, even if it’s good to give all his goodness to himself, but in fact These good again is not what you really want. So girls want to be closer to their male friends, then they should need to understand what’s going on in their boyfriend’s brain thoughts. Here, let’s take a look at it together.
Why is he and you never on the same human frequency?
1. There are differences in the way men and women think. When thinking about the same issue, guys tend to think rationally, while women like to think emotionally, so many times arguments between men and women are caused by differences in thinking styles.
2. Men and women have different brain circuits. Men use their left brain when thinking about a problem, which has all kinds of logic, math, and other aspects of rational thinking, while women use their right brain when thinking about a problem, which determines a person’s emotional intelligence and emotional richness, so women tend to be more sensitive than men.
3. Guys tend to have lower emotional intelligence. This is because men and women think and have different brain circuits, which leads men to think with IQ when they think about a problem, not with EQ, so even if your boyfriend is a genius, then chances are he’s not on the same frequency as you, and it’s all because he doesn’t have enough EQ.
What can you do to become more intimate with your lover?
1. Learn to be tolerant. You say that although you love to get into trouble with your boyfriend and sulk about all kinds of things, but in fact guys often don’t understand why you’re angry, so girls should learn more about how to tolerate their boyfriends’ good and bad, so that you can get closer to your lover.
2. Learn to think about things differently. As we all know from the article above, because men and women think differently and have different brain circuits, women must learn to think differently when they are angry with their boyfriends, whether he really hasn’t turned the corner, or it could make your relationship even more distant.
3. Try to be generous. Because women tend to be more sensitive and suspicious, they are likely to get angry and mad at their boyfriends for a variety of issues, but in fact, boyfriends are just one person, so don’t take him as all dependent as well as dependent, you should try to be generous and get along with him as an equal to make you more harmonious.
In general, guys’ brain ideas as well as brain circuits are very different from girls’, so as a woman with higher emotional intelligence, she must know how to nurture her boyfriend, not to get angry over some small things and break up at the drop of a hat, which is not only The actual fact is that you will not be able to get close to your relationship, but you will probably be unhappy.