A lot of girls are very strange, when they get along with their boyfriends always feel that their boyfriends are very stupid, and feel that they are always not in his future plans, so girls start to fall out with their boyfriends, and even break up because of the drama, but maybe, but In fact, boys’ brain ideas are really not commonly understood, so they also know that certain sets of boys can make your relationship more intimate.
Why doesn’t he always get what you’re saying beyond the words?
1. He doesn’t show it. When you think a guy understands you, maybe it’s not that he doesn’t really understand you, but that he actually knows what you’re doing and wants something, he just doesn’t show it, maybe because he wants to surprise you, maybe because he’s not good enough to actually do something for you.
2. He has low emotional intelligence. But most guys who don’t know what you mean beyond words are showing low emotional intelligence, because men’s psychological as well as emotional maturity is only possible after a lot of human enlightenment, so if a guy doesn’t know it you can teach him more.
3. He doesn’t care about you. If the above two statements have been ruled out, it only means that the guy really doesn’t care about you, because he doesn’t care about whatever you say, so it’s even more unlikely that he understands what you’re supposedly saying beyond the words.
How do you nurture your man?
1. Care for him. To make your man better and have higher emotional intelligence, then you should treat him with your care as well as concern in every way, which will make him feel very good about you and want to imitate your goodness, thus giving you a kind of emotional feedback.
2. When you want to make your boyfriend better, then you have to make yourself better, because this pushing yourself to others is something that everyone understands, don’t impose on others what you don’t like to do, instead of making your boyfriend better you have to make your thoughts more positive.
3. Be reasonable. A lot of girls are reluctant to reason with their boyfriends when they argue, because boys and girls tend to think and boys tend to think in different channels, so girls want to make their boyfriends better, then they need to reason with their boyfriends, to let him know where they are wrong and what they should do in the future, so they can develop the emotional intelligence of boys.
In fact, it is basically impossible for a girl to have a perfect boyfriend because everyone is imperfect, so just the union between people is done in the mutual embedding between imperfection and imperfection as well as tolerance. So girls must learn to be tolerant and accepting of guys and not always be unreasonable.