If a man is not bad, a woman does not love him. The “good man” who works hard to cook and do laundry for you, but you don’t see him, and the “bad man” who has a great personality and a great sense of style, but he’s the one you want to be with. The US website recently broke down the reasons for this, helping women to escape this “spell”.
Androgynous
A survey by the Kinsey Institute found that
Satisfying vanity
Men who are competitive and want to get The more frustrated they are, the more courageous they tend to be, even to the point of dueling and waging war, in order to get the woman they love or to get her affirmation. This heroic behavior tends to stir up a deep sense of satisfaction and even vanity in women.
Rebellion brings pleasure
In a civilized society The “sex” tends to be somewhat constrained and limited. The “bad guys” are brave enough to get rid of this taboo, and this unrestrained interaction is usually incredibly exciting. It’s like taming a wild animal, which is dangerous but doubly rewarding.
Seeking new excitement
If life gets boring, seek dramatic encounters. Looking for dramatic encounters, then I’m afraid only bad men can satisfy. They are more willing to try new things and do things they have never experienced before, such as taking her camping in the middle of nowhere.
Of course, as charming as bad men are, they may not be universally loved. The Kinsey Institute study also found that the attraction of “bad men” is more of a primitive sexual urge, while testosterone levels are lower in ordinary “good men”, will make women feel more secure, but also more likely to be trusted.