Cheating by men is more common than by women, but cheating by women is more decisive. If you find a woman cheating around you, perhaps you should be prepared to lose her. What are the symptoms of a woman cheating? It’s actually pretty easy to see.
Because women are very attached to their relationships, if you measure it in percentages, most women’s lives will go to sixty to ninety, or even more, of love. So, the symptoms of a woman cheating are actually easy to spot, as long as the man is genuinely caring for her and the relationship between the two.
1. Obviously, she used to be a long-winded woman with a lot of words, but she has become a non-chatty person and only slides her phone when she meets. If you only lose your temper over this instead of looking for the cause, it will only speed up the rate of losing her.
2. Your girlfriend’s outings have become numerous and busy, and she rarely reaches out to you. A moment to go to dinner with college classmates, a moment to go to the green with girlfriends, is not to go out with you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
3. Lovemaking is not focused and committed, and you will be tired and want to stop at once, or even find excuses to escape. The previous passion has disappeared …… to say that the bed is the best way to reflect the intimacy of the two people, the answer is under your nose.
4. When your girlfriend comes to you, it’s a coincidence that her period just happens to come when she just doesn’t want you to touch her …… Why is it such a coincidence every time?
5. buy a lot of new underwear panties, but none of them are the color and style you like, and I thought you said you didn’t like white and lace anymore, so why did you buy 10 sets?
6. If you don’t look for her after a fight, she won’t come to you first, so long that she seems to forget about you as a person. It’s like she doesn’t care about the relationship anymore.
7. My girlfriend used to be super clingy with you, and I had many arguments over this issue. Now that she is not clinging to you, she suddenly misses the days when her girlfriend loved to control you and be a follower.
8. She doesn’t even play games, she’s just a weakling, and suddenly she loves to play and beat you. …… Who taught her that?
9、Girlfriend chatting with one thing or another, become careless and answer casually. Some men will feel that this is a normal situation after being together for a long time, only, she still hitched you subconsciously is saying, why do not you retain me?
10. Talking to your girlfriend about the future, instead of excitement, anticipation and happiness in her eyes, there is a complicated expression on her face …… everything has changed tone, and the girlfriend who has changed her mind is like Home run like can’t come back!
Guys don’t wait until a girl shows these signs to regret it, it’s best to be more caring and considerate, don’t ignore and push your girlfriend further and further away, and regret it when it’s too late. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.
Why do women cheat?
A woman’s determination to cheat is because of the pressure of the environment
Our culture is far more tolerant of men than women when it comes to cheating, so in the matter of women cheating, it is possible that men and women will be hurt even more than men cheating on the matter of marriage and the impact of the parties. Men cheating can also pretend to be justified to say: men in society are like this, and women cheating can not even find an excuse. But the truth is, from a human perspective, men and women are emotionally equal. We tend to over-identify with what we’ve been “used to” since childhood. In a nutshell: the difference is that some men who cheat will overly avoid their responsibilities, while some women who cheat will overly blame themselves for not being good enough.
Two, when she can’t get it, she makes choices this way
Is the cheating partner a sinner? It seems simple enough to use moral judgments; but on a psychological level, it seems you can’t simply say that. For example, perhaps in this marriage, the man is very egotistical and he thinks his wife is dependent on him like a child’s. In fact, our relationships always have at least two levels, one level is the explicit relationship and the other is the implicit relationship. In the explicit relationship, it seems that they are a good match, one is responsible for taking care and the other is responsible for listening. But under the “iceberg”, there is another kind of relationship, where the wife also has an ego, a repressed part of her ego that complains about her husband’s “self-centeredness” and is not willing to give herself to the other person, because that would It is not willing to give herself to the other person, because that would mean the extinction of her own existence. If she has some repressed sense of self as a woman, she will rebel against the seemingly omnipotent husband with a hidden attack.
Three, security is the most fundamental reason
Women in marriage There are three roles in a marriage, a daughter, a woman, and a mother. Often daughters and moms are easy to do. Woman is the hardest to do because the role requires you to be true to your heart’s desires and needs, and the two roles of daughter and mom are the ones that can give you security.
What does cheating mean to a person? Your cheating may mean that you have some need that is not being met in the relationship and you are trying to find a prescription that will meet that need. Cheating is a less than successful attempt, but having that attempt means that you have that part of a woman. But after the cheating was exposed, maybe that part of you was suppressed and you tried to live with your husband in a model like daughter and mother, but then you also lost that most important part of your relationship, which is the connection between being a woman and a man.
Fourth, can a broken relationship be repaired? It takes two people to decide.
The conceited little boy becomes a real man with a big heart, and a little girl who is afraid of separation can become a big woman who heals her man, but how hard is that transition! This actually means a real shift in the structure of our personality. Now your enemy is the man caught in the vulnerability of his loneliness and the woman caught in the loneliness of her fear. If both of you are caught in these two emotions, I’m afraid you can’t really connect and help each other. Here’s what you’re advised to do: lower your anxiety dramatically, how?
Facing our own fears of losing our husbands, we can only forge ahead if we can afford to fail, otherwise we will always be like herbivores, avoiding conflict and contradiction, and never truly able to pursue our own happiness; giving our husbands a space will at least make The husband feels that he has room to deal with his own baggage; through the trial of constant connection let the husband feel that the original wife is not as unemotional as he thought, in fact she is not his burden.
Women are actually quite simple. Women like it when men show concern in a crude way because women are always insecure. If she’s not asking you for more, then you need to be careful.