A while ago, the furore of Lin Dan’s cheating incident ended with Xie Xingfang forgiving her husband, and many netizens tweeted that Xie Xingfang was Ma Yili 2.0. What exactly makes women willing to forgive their cheating significant others?
The psychology of women who forgive men who cheat
1. High income and Prestigious, successful men are more likely to cheat. If a woman likes a man in good condition, shouldn’t she accept the back of the moon?
2. For men, betrayal is easy to do, and a lifetime of faithfulness is as hard as it gets.
3. Men cheat, but only to prove their charm and attractiveness.
4. Men are under so much pressure at work that they need to seek a relief.
5. No man is honest.
6. Wives have more advantages than mistresses – they have a home, a heater, and a marriage certificate.
7. Guilt makes men treat their wives better.
8. Maintaining a relationship with a third party for a long time may be a bit much, but a one-night stand or a brief affair in a different location is not hurting anyone.
9. A man’s marriage is made stronger by having a relationship with another woman.
10. 85% of men who cheat on their wives don’t leave them.
11. Men who cheat often do so for the thrill and variety of sex, rather than actually falling in love with each other.
The First: Considering the Cost of Marriage
Marital relationships are a The market relationship, gender differences, material money, power and fame, looks and talent are all direct costs of forming a family. The “Dream of the Red Chamber” in the Jia mother gently defended her grandson “who is not a little confused when young”, no way, the family is big, so Wang Xifeng so smart and capable woman also points out which is more important, turn a blind eye. The first lady, Hillary, is desperate to defend Clinton for her and Clinton’s political careers, and it doesn’t matter if she’s cheating or not.
For many people, especially public figures, who demand maximum benefit when nothing happens and minimum loss when something happens, separation? There, the face can be a big discount! When two people divorce, outsiders always say it’s a pity. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who have been in the business for a long time.
The Second Kind: Holding the Hand to Strengthen the Marriage
American Marriage Counselors have found that 66% of men feel guilty after cheating and 48% of men cite “emotional unfulfillment” as the main reason for cheating. (Reply to the word “cheating” in our twitter feed to tell you which kind of men are prone to cheat) To put it bluntly, cheating for men is just a way to secretly compensate for his psychology, and once they are caught by you he will be very ashamed and will want to make up for it, and if you care for him more, it may be faster to The more you care for him, the faster you may get him back.
The whole country knows about the article, right? Look at people Ma Yili, the attitude is clear, this marriage I still have to want! The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who have been in the business for a long time, and they’ve been in the business for a long time. The man who is destined to become a good boy is easily forced to temper back home and give up to others, what a loss! But! Remember as soon as the cheating man is back on track the rest can be your own homework.
The Third Kind: The Spirit of Q
When the little dragon girl burst out, Jackie Chan said something like: I made a mistake, a mistake that all men in the world make. Also, most men’s ideals, are three palaces six houses seventy-two concubines. This can be controlled, it is tolerated; can not be controlled, it is not guaranteed that the “red flag at home does not fall, outside the colorful flags”. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
Husband cheating Li Xinjie recently exploded in a birthday party with her husband’s intimate photos, someone asked, “Your husband was photographed kissing a young model in the street, how can you still stand it? The person who asked must have forgotten that Li Xinjie has also been 39 years old, how can she think about it, you said I am so old, remarried? Not realistic. Besides, what else can I find, which man is not like this? The stars are also ordinary people, since they are willing to give each other another chance, then play dumb and don’t ask it.