Talking about the topic of men’s lying will resonate with countless women. In women’s eyes, men are happy to cheat whether it is necessary or unnecessary. Plus most stories of betrayal start with lying and cheating, so it becomes a precursor to a certain symptom in men. Unfortunately, the tighter the woman’s grip, the more frequently she finds this phenomenon occurs. Why? I just want to run a good relationship, this is the heart of the woman. Indeed, women’s dependence on feelings men often can not fully understand, but, for your own good OR for our good such reasons we have heard too much from our parents. Do not agree but have to agree with the situation, how do we usually do? Can’t vote with your hands, you can vote in other ways. Like feet.
What is he lying about?
This is a mystery in the minds of countless women. She thinks he is hiding something. Yes, but the direction is not necessarily what she thinks it is. For example:
I want personal space
One day I will tire of my lover’s hugs and my child’s smiling face, but I will never reject the blue sky and white clouds. This statement may make countless women feel that this man has failed her, but it’s true. While family and relationships are important, and usually this is what drives us to get up, go to work, and stay busy every day, don’t overlook that this is also stressful. We all need our own space and support. Women’s trust is children and men, and men? They just need to be left alone once in a while.
Many women can’t understand why a man has to drink with his buddies. It’s a way for him to have personal space. In the past and in today’s society, a woman’s personal space is compressed to a very small amount, and many women won’t even think about themselves as long as the man and children are well. This is one of the things that causes women to not understand men. If you don’t get it, leave him alone for a while.
I just find it annoying
When it comes to relationships, women consider themselves consider themselves to be a very skilled detective. A hair, a smell, a message can make his hiding nowhere to hide. For example, if you find a long curly hair that has been colored, you will think that he must have been hugged by a woman. Maybe yes, at some important party. Maybe he just rubbed it in the subway because there were too many people. But your sense of crisis as a woman tells her that your own inference is more important. Obviously, you’re thinking that way more because he won’t admit to telling the truth in front of you, but maybe he’s not telling you the truth precisely because he knows such a psychology and reaction from you, or maybe it’s a reflection of his defiance of your distrust.
Many women are guilty of this self-righteousness after marriage, a bad habit that is so desirable that men often have to choose two paths, one is to fight back, the big deal is to break up BYE-BYE, the other is to never tell the truth in front of you again. Do not dare to say the truth, a little trace also dare not stay, or the woman’s self-righteousness may imagine a story to, even though there are ten mouths can not say. If you and him together for a long time, he may not choose to break up, but choose to bury everything in the heart, as in the past with you. As for his heart, you may occasionally come across without realizing it; at some point, maybe you will notice which is not right; perhaps, you think everything is normal. Is this what you want?
I don’t want to hear you talk
Nagging, calculating, and The most common trait that 99.9 percent of women share is a love of old scores. And ninety-nine percent of men feel very, very annoyed and depressed about it. Some men will respond with silence, some men will respond with retort, and some men will try to shut women up. There are several ways to shut up, too, like coaxing.
We don’t mean to be critical of women, but we have to say that we found it annoying when our moms did it when we were kids, too, so why grow up and do it to your man? No matter what a man responds with, he will feel that telling a well-intentioned lie is a least costly approach. Because as long as a light-hearted sentence can be, as for the future? Let’s get past the immediate aftermath first.
Why not use it if it’s the easiest way?
Sweet talk is the death knell for most women, and rightfully so. The second law is that the same phrase said too many times decreases in charm, in direct proportion to the number of times. Until zero, and then to a negative number. The third law, the most touching, the most sincere words, his heart that one, in fact, is very simple and common, such as, I love you.SO, women, you know where the problem is? He said too much, you think it’s not true, or bland, so he had to improve on it. We all say that flirting and flirting are means that can be pleasurable, but we ignore that the truthfulness contained therein. In a different direction, he lies for the same reason.
Yeah, I’m trying to have two feet in one.
There’s no denying that part of a man’s motivation for lying is cheating OR stealing food. But how much of this proportion, we can not say, is not just the one that falls beside you, much less the conclusion. Just, woman, you have to understand that if this is a possibility, calm down, in addition to his lying, the evidence will be more and more obvious, unless it is your own insistence when you do not see. Find the evidence, and then give him the death sentence is not too late, but also when you give yourself, to him, and to each other a chance. After all, he’s the one you chose, isn’t he?
All of the above is from the perspective of a woman who didn’t do a good job of looking at the matter of a man lying. We have no intention of judging the woman’s approach, but feelings are never two-sided, if he didn’t do a good job, it proves that some of your behavior gives him ideas. Want two hearts stick together, to pay, not only love, but also tolerance and management, some times, but also add logic and brain. Are you ready to pay for that?
A woman’s tears and resentment towards a man are all for his return glance. As long as the man a word, a look, a look, the woman will be soft-hearted. So, this is the reason why men repeat the same tactics again and again. Women must understand that for history not to repeat itself, it will not unless the underlying issues are fixed.