It’s really not easy for women at this age, they need to accept the challenges of family, society and their own psychological and physical aspects. So there are not a few of them are beaten down, they are separated from the flesh, their bodies and minds are not the same, their needs are not met, they have no place to talk about their grievances, and they become incomparably confused ……In a preliminary overview, middle-aged women probably have the following four major hard feelings:
One, the heart’s desire;
When a woman is over 35 years old, her marriage is in a dull state. The passion between her husband and those of her early years has long since dissipated, and in the eyes of all her friends and relatives, she is a real old person who lives a three-point life every day, at home, at the office and at the grocery store, day in and day out, and the wind does not rise and blow to wrinkle a pool of spring water. The day goes on in such a dull and tasteless way anyway, without having to live it for yourself, but more for the eyes of your children and outsiders.
But every late night, the truest heart awakens and asks itself over and over again in the ticking of the wall clock: Do I still have any longing? The actual fact is that you will need the praise and attention of others? How long has it been since my husband went grocery shopping and cooked with me? I’ve been away for a week and haven’t made a phone call home.
Two, the confusion of the body;
A middle-aged woman once said this in a letter to the sky is always blue: “I hate that God is not understanding, why it has to arrange my man to be exhausted every day in the years when I need him most and am most confused, but to be in the I do not understand the age of men let them put so much thoughtfulness and passion all consumed it?” To be honest, the sky is always blue and I understand this middle-aged woman’s complaint, which is due to her confusion. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. But as they grow older, men are appreciating more and more, while they are slowly withering after the flower blooms, but this is only on the outside. But the energy of their bodies is developing in the reverse direction of their appearance. There is a saying that thirty is like a wolf, forty is like a tiger, the kind of hunger that is disguised but full of picking seems to be unspeakable, always inadvertently making them accompany the body’s confusion farther and farther away.
Third, the pursuit of the spirit;
For reasons such as these, that’s why the sky is always blue, middle-aged women need to have their own pursuit, and this pursuit is not about buying beautiful clothes or making handsome boyfriends, but about fully understanding themselves, respecting themselves, and improving themselves from the depths of their heart and even their spirit. It can be a meaningful hobby, an active social activity, or a piece of music that gently inspires the soul, or a dignified and profound attitude towards life.
Fourth, the wandering of the soul.
When women are over 35, their husbands no longer belong to them, they have their own businesses, and the better he is, the more women will compete with you when you’re not looking. In-laws, and their own mother and father, four old people how to take good care of them, how to fully consider their feelings, how to put the two sides of the water end level, how to run around in-laws and mother’s home …… these daily chores but always give people the illusion of being adrift. The children are older, they no longer belong to their own, they have to live in school, a little time off to spend with their own friends, followed by them to fall in love and get married and have children, women are always unable to find the feeling of resting on shore. This kind of wandering like a cold bone, but can not get rid of, this seems to be the traditional Chinese concept of every good woman’s inevitable home. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
Don’t worry too much, you must live for yourself!