There is always vanity in a man, and a woman’s “foolishness” can set a man off as wise. The woman who is wise as a fool can charm the man, so the stupid woman can also be very happy.
1. Strength and weakness are not verbal, too smart women are not cute
One of the most despised men is the so-called “wimp outside, the hero in the stove bed”. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. For women, the same reason, modern society, equal pay for equal work between men and women, some strong manners in the workplace that is normal, but at home, or to maintain the nature of women. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Men are most afraid of women who are calculating and overly sharp. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. With this “silly” woman, men feel both safe and warm. Private communication with family and friends is different from the workplace, too serious children will make people feel uninterested. You should try to show your smile, show that you enjoy relaxing and accept humorous expressions. A woman’s simplicity is a definite plus in a man’s eyes, and the perfect motivation to push them to perform.
Don’t misunderstand men! The “stupidity” of the silly women that men like is definitely not about intelligence. The woman, over time, will not be attractive to men. The man likes the “silly” girl, is the kind of look silly, the heart but very spectrum of girls. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
2. Treat your husband as the most important person in the family
We have heard too many stories of women’s successful careers and failed marriages. The strong, highly educated women in society often become an obstacle to a good marriage. The business is certainly tight, but don’t forget that women have another important role to play – someone’s wife, not to mention that you are out there on your own, the indispensable backbone of the company, even if your status is supreme, you can’t help but know who you are. The following story may be heard by all, so let’s revisit it again. It is every woman’s responsibility to be clear about her family role, to maintain her husband’s dignity and to guard his heart. Women with successful careers and significantly improved social status should especially cherish their unique female nature and be good at helping their husbands reduce or eliminate unnecessary psychological distress.
From the depths of their hearts, they realize that their success today cannot be achieved without the direct or indirect support and help of their husbands, and must not take credit for themselves in front of their husbands; even if their husbands have some irrational words or actions due to their inner worries, they should put themselves in their shoes and put themselves in their hearts to comfort, persuade and explain, and try to take every possible way to convince their husbands that although they are successful in their careers, they are still in the family life and The role and status of the couple in the relationship is still the same as before, but the difference is that they love and appreciate their husbands more!
Frequently confess your inner pains and worries to your husband about the pressures, hardships, and dilemmas you encounter outside the home, and ask him to help you with your problems. Doing so can shorten the gap between the two sides of the couple, close the psychological distance, thereby constantly enhancing the husband’s sense of self-worth and reduce its psychological pressure. Women in the end is a woman, the success of the form alone will not bring us real happiness. Family happiness, husband pampering, we can find a sense of belonging to life. It’s not hard to get all this, the key is to let your husband know how attached you are to him.
3. There are no absolute rights and wrongs between couples
The saying “no quarrel is not a real couple” is true, and it is normal for two independent adult men and women to spend time together under the same roof. The first thing you need to do is to trip a few words, but there is a deeper understanding, the effectiveness of the exchange of feelings. Just some women, “grab the tip of the child” is used to, between husband and wife is also the same, every argument, will have to play the language talent of women, to prove that they are absolutely justified and the husband is absolutely at fault. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
One of the biggest empty bursts in the world is arguing with someone over and over again – doubly so with your husband’s theory about your family, which results in both parties being more convinced than ever that they are absolutely right. If you lose, of course you lose, if you win, you still lose, because the argument won’t win his heart. If you refute your husband to the point of redness and dumbness, is that a victory? No, he does not speak, but only that a big man is not worthy of a serious fight with his wife, more serious, he will think you are unreasonable and do not want to waste effort. Think about it, is a small argument important, or is your long-term relationship more important?
Mindful people have long said, “There are no winners or losers between husband and wife; it’s either win-win or lose-lose.” Ordinary couples, waking up a little later, but there’s always a time to come around: what’s there to fight about? No matter what, he or she is not their closest people? The only question left is how to pull off the face and make up for it.
Don’t think that women who show weakness are not capable, they bow down, but not all the time, those who bow down are the real weak women, the key to show weakness in a “show”. The key to this is to show weakness in a “show”. In the treasure trove of love for women with high emotional intelligence, a smart woman reveals her innocence and weakness at the right time, and she will reap the benefits of a series of benign results such as care, love, help, and trust.
4, men’s affairs, please do not overstep the mark
Nowadays, there are many capable women who give orders and take charge of the unit, but also at home, no matter how big or small, they all carry the load. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. The woman is very aggrieved: I put a heart out for the family, how he still so much opinion?
In married life, it is not enough to have a good character to work and complain. The men’s personalities, temperaments, and cultivation are all different. For women, when you choose marriage, you should at least have an understanding of your husband and have a mentality and ability to be a wife that meets your husband’s requirements. Not all men like and adapt to the life of clothes to hand, food to mouth, which will seriously damage their male self-esteem. The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
Whether a man is tough or weak on the outside, his heart wants him to give women the security they crave, and he thinks it is only right to protect the woman he loves, and therefore the woman should be submissive. For the beloved woman shelter, which is also a bit of man’s vain pride. If a woman shows a desire for a man’s love and strength, on that basis alone, he will give willingly for her and will always revel in the good feeling of being on top.
We spend our lives chasing a lover who is right for us and forming a stable and warm little family. In a way, to respect your husband is to respect yourself. Because, respecting him means that you have made a wise and deliberate choice, that you have found a man who deserves your love and respect. Conversely, if you don’t respect him, it means you made a foolish choice and found someone who doesn’t deserve your love and respect.
5. Don’t poke your husband’s well-intentioned lies
A beautiful married life not only requires us to be honest and speak our minds, but at some point, it also requires some well-intentioned lies to be the lubricant of the relationship. For women, these lies are to encourage the emotionally gray husband, to add a touch of bright color to life; for men, the lies are to maintain their own image, to appease the wife’s heart. Men are strong, rational, each adult male will consciously or unconsciously maintain this feeling, which is another layer of men’s clothing, do the wife, even if the bottom of his knowledge, there is no need to poke him. Otherwise, an enraged man will defend his dignity with more lies and a bigger temper.
When a man’s lies are for the sake of family peace, the most appropriate attitude for a wife is to be “confused”. The man is almost always stretched to the limit when it comes to covering up or expressing himself. If a woman is serious, a little testimony will be able to refute the man not to stay. But smart women are happy to believe and acquiesce to it. They face the man that a bunch of piles of love promises not to refute, but they are very serious to find the warmth and happiness of love, they pretend to be confused on the one hand, but also taste the sweetness of love. If the wife can grasp the fire of this confusion, then she must be the happiest, the most wise. Our Chinese character for “marriage”, broken down to see, is a “female” and a “faint”, which is very interesting. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.