After such hard work as long meetings and continuous overtime work, what can you say to make your boyfriend feel joyful when he has reached the extreme point of exhaustion? The Japanese website introduces the 3 best things to say to make your boyfriend happy when he is exhausted and exhausted.
1. “Don’t push yourself too hard”
“My own efforts were understood by her and supported me. It makes me feel at ease.” So said one man in his 20s.
“It’s a whiny or comforting thing to say without realizing it. Although I can’t just say cowardly things to the next person, if it’s my girlfriend who says it to me like this, I can feel comfortable pouring my heart out.” Another man in his 20s thinks so.
“Would love to hear that! Hearing my girlfriend say that unconsciously lifts a weight off my shoulders and instantly shifts into private mode.” A man in his 30s said this.
2. Smile and say “hard at work”
“For a moment there’s the thought of ‘Ah, finally home’ and being able to spill the beans.” A man in his 20s said this.
“The moment I see her smiling face, it feels like working hard is something worthwhile.” A man in his 30s said this.
3. “Please say what you have to do with what you want me to do.”
“Whiny and discouraging words come out more easily when she acts like she’s holding off the odds for me.” One man in his 20s put it this way.
“Being able to say that to me at work because I don’t have someone who is holding on to me like that, and who is thinking about my business makes me grateful.” A man in his 20s said this.
“It makes me happy to understand that she really cares about me.” A man in his 30s said this.
When your boyfriend shows up with a very tired look, you may not know what to say. If you smile and let him say his discontent and discouraging words, and to ward off difficulties for him, let him feel your tenderness, he will become reassured and more dependent on you. It’s important to hold back your own worries and frustrations and listen carefully to what he has to say first.