When a child is found to have homosexual tendencies, should they be reversed, and can they be successfully reversed? This is a concern for parents and teachers.
One parent had called the hotline about her anxiety about her middle school daughter, Ruo Nan, who harbored homosexuality and wanted the help of a psychologist to turn her daughter, who was in her prime, back to her true colors.
The mother said Ruo Nan had not worn a skirt since she was five years old and had grown up withdrawn, but was a good student and read a lot of books; not only did she not like to wear skirts and clothes with flowers, but she dressed like a boy and liked to help and care for the little girls like a big brother. Because of her height, she tends to like to scramble like a boy on the soccer field and basketball court. The girl’s classmates all like her and call her “handsome”.
When Ruo Nan entered high school, her academic performance began to decline. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of companies that will be able to meet the needs of their customers. She said she couldn’t help but look at Min Min a few times, but Min Min and Ruo Nan never spoke, and Ruo Nan never confessed his feelings to Min Min. The first time I saw her, I was very upset.
When her father sometimes mentioned in front of her that she would find a boyfriend or get married when she grew up, she became very angry and often said, “I don’t want a boyfriend and I won’t get married.
The first time I saw a woman, I had to go to a major hospital in the province, but I couldn’t find a “miracle cure”.
The fact that no “miracle cure” was found is consistent with the reality of the situation. There is no “miracle cure” for turning absolute homosexuals into heterosexuals.
In a lecture, the internationally renowned sexologist and professor of psychiatry at the University of Hong Kong, Michael Wu, was asked what to do if a teenager was found to be homosexual. At the time, he answered off the cuff, very succinctly and pertinently, “Don’t do anything about it.” Modern mainstream sexologists and medical doctors have recognized that absolute homosexuality is an inherent natural property and should not be treated as a “treatment”, promoted “transformation”, or even “punishment
The world is a place where people are not treated, transformed, or “punished.
In his preface to the 25th anniversary of the Institute’s founding, Professor McIlvenna, director of the Institute for Advanced Sexuality Studies in San Francisco, who pioneered the world’s first master’s and doctoral degrees in sexuality, wrote: “Never have I seen an absolute homosexual turn into a heterosexual, nor an absolute heterosexual turn into a homosexual. ” This is very much in line with Professor Min-Lun Wu’s opinion that reversing a child’s homosexual orientation is not going to work, if indeed they are born absolutely homosexual.
That is, if you are born absolutely homosexual, you don’t have to do anything about it, and no matter how hard you try, it won’t work, and if you push too hard, you might have an accident; if you are not born absolutely homosexual, but are relatively homosexual in a momentary, situational way, you don’t have to do anything about it, and it will revert to heterosexuality. Homosexuality is not a good label in the current social situation. Are you willing to subject your child to a lot of unwarranted public opinion and social pressure, discrimination, and inappropriate treatment?
In fact, you can’t tell whether your child is really (definitely) gay or just a temporary phenomenon in psychosexual development (it’s normal to be pro-homosexual and distant from the opposite sex for a period of time during teenage development) when he is not yet an adult, and neither can doctors or teachers. Wakanan is still only secretly in love with Minmin, and even if she and Minmin have had same-sex sex once or twice, Wakanan cannot be identified as a true (absolute) homosexual. Maybe a few years later she emerges as a standard heterosexual again, demonstrating her true sexual orientation as an adult.
The only good way to face this situation is to let the natural process of growth and development explain and resolve everything. In most cases, if one is not truly (absolutely) gay, one will naturally be a heterosexual in time; in a few cases, if one is truly absolutely gay, the most appropriate thing you can do is to respect and accept your child’s sexual orientation.
This is not to say that the family, school, and society should not be concerned with issues related to “sex” in children. The first thing that we need to do is to make sure that we have a good understanding of how to use the Internet and how to use it. It’s just a matter of what to do about a child’s so-called “homosexual tendencies”: it’s better for the child to do nothing than to interfere with the child’s sexual orientation.