Not every girl in love can be breezy, enthusiastic and cheerful, there are some girls who are cautious and very unconfident in love. And many times this inability to correctly perceive their own mindset will affect these girls in love further towards. The following is a list of the seven manifestations of girls’ lack of confidence in love.
1, not recognizing their own strengths
Many unconfident girls, who often doubt all aspects of their abilities, often fail to recognize some of their strengths. In their consciousness, no man will take the initiative to talk to them much less take the initiative to pursue them. This type of girl is not confident and uncomfortable because of the lack of confidence, and more closed off because of the lack of understanding, which eventually makes you pass by with love again and again, and lose the opportunity to get off.
2, easy to be awkward
Confronted with the person you like, incoherent The situation of being at a loss for words is often seen in Cinderella-like fairy tales and youth idol dramas. This type of girl is usually confused because she is nervous in front of the person she wants to meet, or even froze in conversation as they are smoothing out their inner bunny. And as the liking increases, this type of girl may even dread meeting because the last time something went wrong. The result is often that the other person thinks you don’t want to meet and misses out on love because of it.
3. Don’t believe the other person’s hints
The girls who are not confident, even if the other party has repeatedly hinted, still dare not easily believe that love has really come. They are careful to protect the heart that belongs to them and almost never take the initiative to pursue love, even if the other party has explicitly confessed they will deliberate and make sure that the other party is not joking.
4. Too obsessed with what the other person says
Unconfident The girl will try to figure out every message delivered by the intended person over and over again. A certain change in expression when the other person speaks, the tone of voice when calling, a facebook or even a joke, the girl will carefully consider, analyze his mood and reasons at the time. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
5.5. Get discouraged after one failure
Take the initiative to hit on someone who seems to have a crush on you only to find out that you were wrong. The other side has already “a woman”, and the confession failed such “wall” experience will let you lose all the courage at once, every time you want to take the initiative in the future will use the “previous lesson The “to caution themselves. The most important thing to do is to wait for someone else to confess, so the days of being single are getting longer.
6. Easily distracted
When one’s feelings are brewing to a peak and one is talking to the person of interest one is actually not The reason is that at this moment, you are trying to suppress the urge to suddenly shout out “Do you like me?
7. Try to pretend you don’t care
Sometimes the less confident a girl is, the more reluctant she is to let people know. The more you are willing to let people guess your own little thoughts. They are afraid that the other party will see that they are interested in each other, and the other party does not like themselves and embarrassment, or in the guise of protecting themselves. So, the girl who is not confident to meet the person of interest will often pretend that they do not care. However, this disguise will sometimes be because of the fire mastery of the bad and play smashed, the other party will often think you have no intention of further development and convergence. The company is also more likely to be destroyed.