In a relationship we get a taste of “love”, not necessarily true love. For example, if a person likes another person, he does not have to love her, but his liking for her is unique and cannot be easily replaced by others, even if they break up. So, what do we learn from failed relationships?
Appearance is not the issue
Being with him will change your opinion of your own appearance. Don’t care too much about your appearance. The truth is that everyone’s definition of beauty is different, and most importantly, being in love shows you that perfection is not always attractive.
Don’t say what you shouldn’t
The more people love each other, the more they unguardedly show each other their weaknesses and pains, which need to be understood and tenderly cared for. The most important thing is to be able to understand and care for each other, not as a weapon when quarrelling. Once you say something, you can never really go back to the past.
Don’t be too dependent
Don’t be too nice to guys or boyfriends, don’t be too dependent, and don’t trust people easily. The more you use your strength in love, the more fragile it becomes.
Be your own social circle
Don’t surround yourself with TA all day, follow the pace of your own life and don’t give up the life you were meant to live for anyone. Stay together and show your love fully. The date is over and back to your own life, girls must not take the initiative, he comes to you enthusiastic, do not come to live their own life.
Know your needs
You need to know your needs. What kind of man is what you need. Secondly, you need to understand the lover you are dealing with, whether it is what you need. Again, learn to love, and teach him how to love.
Learn to communicate
There are no two people in the world that are meant to be compatible. The world doesn’t have two people who are a good match, they need a bonding period. If you think he is the one you like and deserve, you can change him slowly. Teach him how to love you, how to love his parents, and how to communicate with people.
Don’t just give
In a relationship, all that is more than the other person The extra give and take is what you are willing to do, don’t count on it. The heart is not fair, will gradually put these payments, into chains. Otherwise, you should not give too much.