Recently the entertainment industry is popular sister-brother relationship, Wendi Deng and 20-year-old male model dating, Li Bingbing openly confessed love, boyfriend than her younger than a dozen years, and before Zhong Li Ti and Zhang Lun Shuo married abuse countless single dogs. The entertainment industry is not a lot of sister-brother love, but in real life many girls have not dared to find a man younger than they are.
Why are you afraid to find a man younger than you to marry?
Social and ethical pressures
A woman who is seven years older than a man is The guilt of “incest” fills the mind. People may think that the man is a white boy, a lapdog, or that the woman is a flirtatious woman. Many people can’t handle the pressure of society’s tinted glasses.
Young men are immature
Young men who are immature. This is when girls are under a lot of pressure, and being a mother and a daughter-in-law can be very tiring. Every girl desires to be pampered and to have a safe shoulder to lean on.
Worry about the big difference in looks
Many girls worry that they Older and younger, dumped by the young grass, died very deservedly very blamed very deep in the hearts of the people, and their future may go before him, life track will always be one step ahead of him.
But despite this, the person who chooses to have a brother-in-law relationship is not necessarily unhappy, he may not be very mature, but he is positive, giving you hope and happiness in life, or he is young, but the way he deals with things is very mature, so you feel very secure and have a feeling of being cared for. Feelings. The actual age is just a cosmetic factor, and really to get married to a person, it should depend on how well the two people get along and how happy they are together.
The truth is that the only way you can be happy or unhappy is to do it yourself. Although we need to respect marriage, it is best not to constantly think about “marriage is a lifetime thing”. A lifetime is too long, and anything can happen.
Marriage is just a way to make existing happiness more legitimate and convenient. The longevity of the day is an unexpected blessing, better with, and far from a failure in life without. When you meet the right person, it’s time to get things done. Don’t do the business of a big woman and still have a small woman with low self-esteem living in your heart.