Many lovers who step into a marital home will feel uncomfortable and feel that there is no more sweetness in the relationship. This psychological gap will make some lovers deliberately create some nonsensical events to prove that the other party still cares in the end do not care about themselves. In fact, such suspicion and practice will affect the psychological health of both sides. And it will make the other party resent such behavior. So, what are the most taboo unreasonable behaviors in marriage?
1. Misunderstandings of the borrowed type: Seizing on a little thing and not letting it go, infinitely magnifying it and finding nothing to quarrel about. Such a lover usually feels that the status of the relationship is not secure, and wants the other party to determine his status and value, which is why he wants to be unreasonable.
2. Intentionally created misunderstanding: Obviously the event is clear and unambiguous, but the other person has to imagine some of his understanding out of thin air, and these understandings are borderline, distorted, and he The fact that it is confirmed to be the truth makes people laugh and cry, and they are angry and hateful, and some bad-tempered people don’t bother to put up with it, and may not pay attention to each other from now on. So, using this way to test the status and value in the lovers, is very risky and unnecessary. Get along with each other, there are misunderstandings to say clearly, if these misunderstandings are not detrimental to the interests of both sides, and there is no deception, why not settle the matter and have to give birth to some trouble? Just to see if the other party values you or not care about you?
3. Misunderstandings based on subjective assumptions: Some lovers create things based on their own subjective assumptions, such as the existence of two sides with different customs, or some local vernacular do not understand, etc., making him inwardly Unrest, it guessed that others say things to his detriment, or not welcome him hate him, and then jumped up and shouted. In fact, it’s just something you think of, and you have to ask the other party to give him a statement, and he doesn’t agree with it. Such a person is unbelievable. The reason for this is that he wants the other party to give him to rule out his doubts, or he feels that there are some factors against him, and the reason may be that he is afraid of losing the other party and wants to keep the other party tightly tied to his heart to feel at ease.