One of the must-tell lies for women: I won’t let you change anything
We all wish that the man we fall in love with has a well-developed muscle like Schwarzenegger, a handsome face like Louis Koo, and a good look like The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers. Tell him that you like his hairy beer belly, because it makes you feel spring-like warmth in winter. Tell him that you like to hear him sound like a big grizzly bear at night so you feel safe. One day if he is out of town and you can’t hear him sounding hearty at night, you will lose sleep like a general who has been in war for a long time because you can’t hear the guns.
Women must tell lie number two: I like your friends
His friends are drinking heavily, chewing loudly, talking about their careers, and still pointing the way when they are no longer teenagers. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. Even if they occasionally have excellent people, you do not want to always have a light bulb to light you and your boyfriend’s intimate eyes. So what do you do? Say you don’t like them? He will think you picky, that you do not give him face, that you do not agree with his friendship and righteousness. So, how upset you are in your heart, do not say it, say it hurt his face, but also hurt his feelings. So, if you have to snack with those smelly men, learn to like them, or at least pretend to like them. Then, slowly with your schedule to eat away at his time, quietly reduce his “friendly visits” with friends and foxes. If he suddenly realizes one day that it’s been a while since we’ve met, you can smile and say, “Yeah, I really miss them.
The third lie women must tell: I’m willing to help you clean up the mess
The biggest characteristic of men is laziness, and the biggest characteristic of men’s homes is chaos. The most important thing is that you can’t just take a look at the ancient Chinese legend that men always want a little fairy to come down from the sky and clean their house and cook for them. So, for a man who is just starting to build a relationship, be sure to show your thoughtfulness, make a very understanding look and say “let me help you clean up.” Then gladly help him clean up the messy dishes and act like you love housework. This way men tend to have family-like warmth and miss you more when you are not around. Of course, this doesn’t have to last long. When his house is fresh and new, and he becomes dependent on you, it’s not too late for you to train him to do the work slowly. Start by urging him to wash his stinky socks after a workout and tell him solemnly, “Don’t be a baby and throw things around.”
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Woman Must Tell Lie #4: I love your family
If you’re a very lucky woman, you may see friendly eyes when you visit his parents at home. But generally speaking, when you step into his home with trepidation, you will first see the hostility in his mother’s eyes, as if you were the love rival who killed the door, and your thick-headed boyfriend knew nothing about it. He also foolishly thinks that you love him and his mother loves him, so you and his mother can love each other. Don’t think you can explain this esoteric issue to him. If he asks, tell him honestly that you love spending time with his family. If you say you don’t like it, it’s too likely to hurt his feelings. Women who have had many years of experience as daughters-in-law conclude that being friendly to his family translates into action: meet less and give more gifts. Tell him you love the people in his family, never avoid conflicts between you over family members, and lock the time to meet for birthdays or holidays.
Woman Must Tell Lie #5: I love sports
Men are crazy about sports in a way we can never understand. He always watches the TV game as soon as he gets off work and can’t take his eyes off the ball, and once he gets into bed, he grabs the “Soccer News” “New Sports” and reads it with a browbeat. He watched the Serie A (soccer league) to see the Bundesliga, watched the German (national) A to see the Spanish (Spanish) A, and then went into the NBA round robin to see Jordan to see Yao Ming.
Women Must Tell Lie #6: You’re Right
Your boyfriend is outstanding, but always a little overbearing. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get the best out of your life. He will suddenly raise the volume on the road, for the film of a role in the acting level and you fight, you do not want to talk with him on some harmless issues. At this moment, raise the volume and his tit-for-tat is obviously not wise, you need to give the man a little face, coax him “you are right, quite reasonable.” Temporary concessions are only for the future to better take, you will one day let him lose the heart. Wise man cloud: men are the head, women are the neck, the neck will determine the direction of rotation of the head. Men always think they know everything, control everything, but the real control is the actual woman, women can always manipulate the whole situation without moving. So, don’t bother with him.