A man playing ambiguous has his purpose
A man playing ambiguous has his purpose, women don’t naively think that this ambiguous only they are playing, but forget that the mantis catching the cicada, the yellow bird in the back, playing ambiguous man is the yellow bird, hiding behind waiting for the opportunity to take away from you what he wants, the rest, all free talk.
This is a restless time, under the surface of the calm life, the dark tide, not willing to lonely hearts caused the air is filled with the smell of ambiguity.
The first time I saw a woman, I thought she was going to be a trap, and I’m afraid she’ll end up being misunderstood by a man.
Vicious ambiguity you can’t afford to hurt
There are two kinds of ambiguity: benign and vicious. The good ambiguity points to love, as to whether it can later develop into love, it depends on the time and place and people. There is also a kind of vicious ambiguity, that is ambiguous for the sake of ambiguity. In other words, it is to find someone to play with the feeling, like a banquet, you go happily, look at the table full of delicious food, just want to pounce on a meal, but was told: only look, smell, not eat. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
The scary thing is that no one ever tells you in advance. The person (usually a man) who likes to play the flirtation – starts with a “fancy you” look, tosses autumn spinach at you, and says something meaningful to you. The “accidental” either shoulder or finger touches you, causing you to panic and think every day, “Is he in love with me or not? The more you look at the person, the more you are attracted to him, and the more your mind is held by him, the softer and more itchy you can’t help but play this game of hiding your head and your tail with 12,000% enthusiasm. The first thing you need to do is to find out that everything has come to a screeching halt. You are like a person who has buried his head in a sprint and finds that the end is not a red line but a piece of nothingness ……
Foolishly, it is not a good idea to keep running, it is not a good idea to stop violently. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. I know a man who spreads the seeds of ambiguity in every new place he goes, and his motto in life is, “Keep an ambiguous relationship with every woman I know.”
Vicious ambiguity is the enemy of love. You think it’s love, it’s not, and it never will be. Many people mistakenly believe that this is what love is all about, knowing that it is hopeless, but still indulging themselves in it and wasting their time.
The man playing ambiguous men’s secrets
The man playing ambiguous is his purpose, women do not naively think that this ambiguous only they are playing, but forget that the mantis catching cicada, the yellow bird in the back, playing ambiguous men is the yellow bird, hiding behind waiting for the opportunity to take away from you what he wants, the other, all free talk. The following secrets women can not do not know.
1. 99% of men who play ambiguous will not play with just one person
Since they have the intention to play this game, they will play more thoroughly. The men like to be around a number of women and enjoy the thrill of being surrounded by flowers than just one object. The remaining 1% are the outliers among men who play ambiguous, and the chances of this encounter are so small that it is basically negligible.
2. Men play ambiguous, the emphasis is on play not ambiguity
Play is fun, ambiguity is hell. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The woman who wants real feelings, once with them, 99% hurt.
3, playing ambiguous men are always self-righteous
Think they can afford to play ambiguous men are always so a little self-righteous, so a little bit of his point narcissism, so a little bit of self-deception, thinking that the women around them can be attracted to them, and then to reach the call to come and go, for these self-absorbed men, the most powerful weapon that can make them awaken, is the woman’s The most powerful weapon for these narcissistic men to awaken is a woman’s loud rejection.
The safest way to play ambiguity:
1. Even if it’s perfectly timed, you can occasionally call him and ask him to help you buy a breakfast at the convenience store downstairs from your office – the phrase “you can help me see what to buy, you know what I like to eat” must be added.
2. Break his embrace, and help him to clean his clothes or sweep the dust from his shoulders, even if it’s not dirty at all, and make a false move.
3. Although it is absolutely forbidden for him to touch your body, you can take the initiative to touch his body at a lower frequency, for example, if he says he feels sick, it is natural to touch his forehead and then touch your own; or when waiting for the subway together, lean on his shoulder and say “I’m exhausted, you stand straight and let me lean for a while. “
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4. When it’s cold, you can stuff your cold hands into his clothes for warmth, but remember it’s the top half, not the bottom half, not the back pocket of your jeans, the bottom half of a man’s body burns easily.
5. Learn to bend over and pick things in front of him, not too close together, not too far apart, a meter to a meter and a half is best, don’t underestimate this action, it’s a very sexy action, slightly so seductive, the rest is his business, not yours.
6. If you go on a business trip or travel to another city for a short stay, be sure to send him a text message at 10-12pm the next night, implicitly expressing your lonely mood (no, you can also say yes), and then turn off your phone, the next morning even if you receive the other party’s ambiguous reply from the night before, you must ignore it.
7. When the company has a group dinner event, sit at a table with him at the dinner table, but don’t take the initiative to sit next to him, if he graciously invites you to sit next to him, then graciously accept; spend half the time with female colleagues at the event, and then allocate the rest of the time to him as appropriate.
8. Learn to smile professionally and wear professional women’s clothing to meet him, meaning to tell him that I am not a child and that I am not too casual with you. Often such an outfit can change a person.
9. To always be able to say the phrase: Sorry, not yet the time. This sentence is axiomatic.