Just as women are afraid of men not being in charge, men are head over heels for some of the faults of women, so what are the faults that men are most afraid of? I have compiled 6 of them for you to see if you have been shot.
As much as irresponsible, out-of-touch men make it impossible to trust, it’s important to believe that some of the negative traits of women can also make men secretly cringe. This time, a strict selection of 6 men’s most annoying faults in women for you. Be careful, don’t let them get to you.
1. Always asking silly questions.
I always hear some men complain about why some women always ask silly questions. Sometimes women just need to ask others to relieve their anxiety, such as “Does this dress fit me?” “Do you love me?” “Is that person cuter than me?” “Have I gained weight lately?” and so on.
In the beginning, the man would answer seriously, but if he is asked these questions often, the man will just think that the woman is so annoying and there is nothing else meaningful in life except these things. The reason for the formation of this fault is one because there is no self-confidence, and the second because of excessive self-awareness. To solve this problem, start by accepting everything about yourself, good or bad, make a position for yourself, don’t care too much about other people’s judgments, and believe that the people who really love you love the truest you.
2. Make conversation unpleasant.
Men, are creatures of great self-esteem, especially when it comes to saying something they are proud of. However, lately, you will hear some people complaining about their girlfriends, always gushing about themselves. When it comes to talking about the man’s business, the girlfriend puts on a disinterested look and ignores the topic. The first time I saw her, she started fiddling with her phone.
It’s true that there may be some topics that women really aren’t interested in, but he’s your boyfriend, so it’s still a good idea to take his face into account and listen carefully to what he has to say and try to find out what’s interesting, which is the best way to enhance good feelings.
3. Vegan in any situation.
Many girls nowadays are confident that they are beautiful in their own skin and their boyfriends praise them for being beautiful in their own skin. It is true that youth is the capital. There is an indescribable charm to a vegan face. But always showing your bare face regardless of the occasion can sometimes be a problem for men, such as when attending an important party.
Since your boyfriend is taking you out, he wants you to look good for him, and if you’re wearing a dark eye and a pale, dull face, you’ll be seen as lacking basic respect. So dressing up in the right attire for the right occasion is also a way to boost your confidence.
4. Terrible expressions and sharp words.
Strong women who are always smart and capable in the workplace are often prone to unconsciously owning this problem. They are always thunderous in their work, the wind is hot, and when they speak, they are also to the point, leaving no room for error. But this habit, if applied to the emotional life, especially for some of the more sensitive boys, which are the cause of their injuries and fled. Such a woman can be said to be the type of man most afraid to approach easily. The most important thing that makes a woman popular in any country in any era is that she is “cheerful and has a warm smile”.
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Do you do things like “That girl, although her face is cute, her clothes are so rustic” and other backhanded comments about other people? Always say things like this, to others, disdain, whether right or wrong, in the mind of the listener, you are simply jealous of it. And never praise other men too much in front of men. It is wise for two people to find a common topic and discuss it together.
6. No passion.
For men, one of the bigger headaches these days is when two people are dealing with sex. Many couples are troubled by this. If you find that you and your boyfriend don’t see eye to eye, then it’s best to sit down and have a good talk, don’t let it go, and for both people to come up with a good solution to make the romance go more smoothly, otherwise it’s torture for either party.