Since ancient times, the red flower with green leaves and the beautiful woman with the handsome man seem to be natural and unmistakable. It seems that beautiful things put together is a relatively heartwarming thing. But is there something too perfect about this? The actual fact is that there is no absolute perfection, and in recent years, the trend of the beauty home has developed into what people call “downhill” beauty and the beast with more and more, a flower is really inserted in the “cow dung”.
Why do women choose the beast?
The beasts’ duty is to hold up the egos of the beautiful women
Beauty cries over something, while Beast Man wipes away the tears with his fingers drop by drop and is by his side in silence. Beast men through such actions, preserving the beauty of the beauty, so that the beauty looks more charming. The beasts are careful to take care of the beauty’s self-esteem, which is also one of the reasons for being loved, right? They don’t embody their greatness with some cool words like the dudes, but they think about how to make the beauties happy, which is the most charming way to shake the hearts and minds of the beauties.
I think the reason why beastly men are so popular is because they appreciate and compliment others. They know that they do not have the advantage in appearance, so they try to find other places that can attract the attention of beautiful women. The act of praise is very useful for beautiful women, who themselves care more about their appearance, and when someone praises them, their self-confidence will soar, so they will naturally favor such people.
The beasts also know that beauties are probably immune to superficial compliments, so they show respect for them in terms of their personality, discovering them from the inside and slowly entering their inner world to gain favor. It is said that the lover’s eye is the best, and as long as you understand the psychology of a beautiful woman, even a beast can become a beast prince.
Beauties actually value their beauty more
Why are the streets It’s always the beauty with the beast. In fact, to put it bluntly, it’s the beauty that “likes” the beast. The focus of attention of the beauty is all on their own body, and the other party’s looks actually lies second. The other side of the coin plays a supporting role and makes itself look beautiful.
Of course, not all beautiful women have this kind of mindset, but subconsciously this trait is still prevalent, and it’s not just limited to beautiful women. Just like a group photo has just arrived, the first thing everyone does is to first look for their own shadow in the crowd. In this sense, all people are very concerned about their appearance and attention, and are members of the “appearance society” without exception.
I think: beautiful people care about their appearance, and are not a complete appearance society, they may be momentarily fascinated by a man’s appearance, but what they really care about is a man’s ability and commitment, and the beasts will give beautiful people a sense of security. An inexplicable sense of security. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re getting into, and that’s why I’m here to quietly say to the “beasts”: don’t be inferior, you can get a good idea too!
The Beauty and the Beast model
Talented Ugly Man and Well-Behaved Beauty
Beauty with the Beast? Although the “beast” looks ordinary, but they have talent. The most important thing is that you can get the most out of your life.
Wei says one important element in a stable relationship is whether or not the woman will develop an admiration for the man she’s dating. In a family marriage as well, if the wife worships her husband from the heart, the marriage relationship will also be much more solid. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
Ending: Attracted by talent and married because of admiration, this pairing is often still reliable and the marriage relationship is still strong.
Advice: There is no shortage of beautiful women around a talented man, even if he is a beastly, ugly man. The “beast” needs to be reminded to discipline himself and watch out for pollen.
Strong Women and Homemakers
Most acceptable marriages are : The education and ability of the man is better than the woman. If the woman’s education, social role, and career are better than the man’s in a relationship, can this situation be a harmonious match?
Wei Zhizhong said that to be in a relationship with a woman who is socially superior to him, the first thing is that the man has to be mentally strong, and in his opinion, there is no difference in education, no difference in social roles, and no one is climbing up the ladder, so that they can love each other. What is love? Passion, psychological attachment, and responsibility are the core elements of love. Passion naturally means that there is a good feeling of closeness, and psychological attachment, that is, after having her, his heart is solid. The first thing you need to do is to have a good understanding of what you are doing.
Ending: A woman with a D man pairing often doesn’t last if the material things like reputation and money come first from the start.
Suggestion: A woman with a D man is a match that determines whether or not the future is happy because of their psychological fit, especially if the man has a strong inner world.
Handsome man with fragile heart and strong psychological dinosaur
Handsome man with beautiful woman. When will a handsome man choose a dinosaur girl? Wei Zhizhong said, this is to talk about three levels of love: 1, appearance; 2, social status (ability); 3, psychological. A handsome man, even if he is penniless, but he is psychologically strong enough to think that he will be able to make this golden girl happy in the future, then he also dares to marry, and does not think that he feels that people girls are down to marry him.
If this handsome man still has some social status, then he is more likely to marry a heavenly fairy. Then there is only one situation where the handsome man will choose a dinosaur girl, only when he is not mentally strong enough and has no self confidence, he can only choose a dinosaur girl to give himself comfort.
Counselor Wei Zhizhong said that a handsome man who is weak inside cannot be paired with a beautiful woman. In their eyes, psychological balance is the most important thing, and what he needs inside is precious. If the dinosaur girl is understanding and meets exactly what he needs inside, then it’s balanced.
Ending: bonding because of balance and byebye because of imbalance.
Suggestion: In the process of falling in love The three dimensions of appearance, ability and psychology each account for 30 points; but after marriage, appearance drops to 10 points, and the proportion of ability and psychology increases. If two people can not master the balance of these three, the problem comes. It is recommended that dinosaur women cultivate more in virtue and wisdom, and turn themselves into talented women and virtuous wives and mothers, so that their life after marriage will become happy and stable.
Traumatized little boys and naive little girls
Most Phoenix men come from rural areas, born into poverty, the cruelty and hardship of life have left a deep imprint on their minds: low self-esteem but high self-esteem, the ability to endure hardship and a strong motivation to achieve. This makes them more capable of succeeding in their careers than others.
While some Phoenix men grow up free of their inferiority complex, they are still sensitive, suspicious, and have low self-esteem. The peacock woman belongs to the “greenhouse growth of the flowers”, do not know the suffering of the world. They are simple at heart, and they admire and yearn for pure love.
“When the phoenix man meets the peacock woman, it’s the story of a traumatized boy and a naive girl.” Wei Zhizhong said, these two people met, the phoenix man’s difficult life experience will greatly attract the peacock woman, because of curiosity, appreciation, the two can quickly enter the stage of love. Love is easy to get along difficult. The two are in love with each other, and the two are in love with each other.
Ending: Because of their completely different family backgrounds and upbringings, these two people often end up in a relationship with two outcomes: one; a colorful life that is new every day; and two; dazzling and contradictory.
Advice: Peacock women not only see the shiny phoenix man on the outside, but also go into his inferior inner world, better to visit his hometown, so as to really understand the Phoenix man’s upbringing. The so-called understanding → understanding → acceptance → harness (grasp). Only by understanding each other’s life background, which can understand the root of their words and actions, and thus the possibility of accepting the phoenix man.
Editorial Conclusion
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