Remember the axiom: “Any time anyone asks you how many times you’ve been in love, the answer is twice. Once when he loved me and I didn’t love him, and once when I loved him and he didn’t love me.”
I think this is particularly true. In fact, there are only two kinds of love. The first one is the one that is not in love with each other, and the second one is the one that is not in love with each other, and the second one is the one that is not in love with each other.
Why should men pursue this?
The reason is that first of all, it is out of a kind of jealousy, if they are not the first, is not a little bit of prosecution others do not want the taste. This is about the dignity of manhood.
Secondly, it is based on a strong sense of personal possession. The first is that he wants to possess not only her present and future, but also her past.
The first is that the person who is in the relationship with the family, colleagues, and friends will be in trouble.
Again, it is because men take it for granted that they should know about their lovers’ pasts and ask about them to see if they are following the rules. Even fairly generous men subconsciously ask endless questions, fearing that something unpleasant will bring lifelong regrets. The interesting thing is that women are more open-minded on this point and are more concerned about their lovers’ present and future, so they are more tolerant of men in every way.
And some girls can’t stand to be pressed by their boyfriends to confess everything about their past, thinking it’s better for both sides to be honest. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. It would be ideal if we could marry each other after pushing our hearts out and getting to know each other, but reality will always clash with the ideal. Most men are selfish, and it’s fine if he doesn’t know, but when he finds out about your past with a man, or even some of the details of your relationship, it’s like planting a time bomb. Although at the time he may indeed do not mind, but who can guarantee the situation a few years later it let you worry about it when the outbreak. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
When your boyfriend says to you, “It’s okay, I love you now and don’t care about your past.” In fact, this is a completely self-defeating lie. A man will always care about his girlfriend’s past. A man with a suspicious nature may not tire of pursuing the matter. If the woman says one thing, he will continue to ask her to say a second and a third thing. When this happens, even if there really is something in the past, you should make light of it by replying, “…… but you were the first person I really fell in love with!” This may be crucial for some men.
A woman should never be overly honest at this point, it’s what hurts him so much. It gives him a hard time to talk and naturally discounts his feelings for you! Men are usually insecure about the same sex, and if you mention a relationship with a former boyfriend, it may make him apprehensive. It should make him feel better and luckier than other men and satisfy a handful of his heroism and machismo.
A man will always want his woman to be a millionaire but he’s the only one who gets it, and all the other men have to do is stare. So when you have been in a relationship more than twice, you must remember to say, “I’ve only been in two relationships, one where I loved him and one where he loved me.” Usually, the number of lovers a man talks about needs to be divided by three to be the actual number of lovers, while the number of lovers a woman has needs to be multiplied by three to be the actual number.