Men desire virginity, which they see as purity and fidelity to love. The virginity of women is the most secret, soft and beautiful pain in the heart. Perhaps the concept of “commodity women” is deeply rooted, standing in the “moral position” at the forefront of loud shouting is mostly men …… In fact, this is the woman’s own thing, the most right to speak It’s the women who have the most say.
Men’s judgment of virginity is only physical. According to the old calendar, the wedding night does not fall red, not to say that the marriage can not be maintained, is the right to survive seems to be very problematic. According to Taoists, such women do not seek their own death, simply no shame at all. Thousands of years of tradition gradually formed the worship of the hymen? It is the most valuable gift a woman can give to her husband.
It is society’s emphasis on the hymen that makes women desperately try to hold on to this last line of defense. But now, after all, it’s the new millennium, and women can finally talk about themselves in a calm manner. Look at the following descriptions from women themselves, whether men or women, isn’t it time to have a more sober understanding of the topic?
Ms. A: The highest level of love is expressed through sex
I don’t Take the issue of virginity so seriously, how can I say it, it is my own business, I just have to be responsible for my own actions, no one can accuse me. At a certain stage in the development of love between two people, only sex can come to express. This is probably one of the reasons why people choose to get married.
Ms. B: Never have sex before marriage
Even if I love that person, I will not have sex with him before marriage. If he breaks up with me because of it, I won’t regret it.
I thought that virginity was a guarantee of a long-lasting marriage, and that I would be humiliated if I lost my virginity before marriage. My husband would love me more because I was a virgin when I married him. As for whether the person I marry is the one I love most this doesn’t matter much, as long as a solid family is enough, where’s the romance in that?
Ms. C: I’m embarrassed to be a virgin
If a woman I would be embarrassed for her if she was a virgin in her twenties. This means that there are few people who love her or that she is a bit abnormal herself. If you don’t have sexual experience before marriage, you may have all kinds of unexpected problems after marriage because of lack of sexual experience.
It’s even more ridiculous if a woman is still proud of being a virgin when she reaches her thirties. That’s not a normal life, and it’s a woman’s right to enjoy sex.
Ms. D: It depends
People rarely fall in love all at once. The It is also impossible to love only one person in a lifetime. If the man who gets my initial love is not my husband, well, it depends.
If he doesn’t care, that’s the best thing that could happen, and I can live my life easily. If he cares, and I have to marry him, then, sorry, what’s the big deal now that technology is so advanced? Don’t say I’m mean, it’s to satisfy a man’s needs. Besides, what will I use to prove him?
Ms. E: Chastity of the mind trumps chastity of the body
If a woman loses her chastity, people have no right to accuse her. Maybe it was a careless fault, or maybe it was for true love. It is the purity of the heart that counts, and it is better for men not to be foolish.