Being a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you must understand that moms and mothers-in-law are different, and although you call your husband’s mom mom, the way you get along is not the same. What do you have to do to be a good daughter-in-law in the heart of the mother-in-law? That’s something to learn.
One, when you are a daughter and top your mother’s mouth, your mother will forget about it at once; but if you are married and top your mother-in-law’s mouth, beware of meeting a narrow-minded mother-in-law who keeps it in mind for the rest of her life.
Two, at home as a daughter when hungry mom cooked three meals for you to eat, very natural; married to a woman mother-in-law cooked three meals for you to eat, very unfilial.
Three, it is natural for a mother to cook for her daughter’s husband to eat; it is ungrateful for a mother-in-law to cook for her son’s daughter-in-law to eat.
Four: If you didn’t help when your mother was busy, you didn’t do anything; if you didn’t help when your mother-in-law was busy, you were very unfilial;
Five: When you go out
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6. You can say things about your husband in front of your mother, but don’t complain about your husband in front of your mother-in-law.
Seven, in front of your mom, you can be lazy and feel good about it; in front of your mother-in-law, you can’t say the word lazy, let alone put it into action.
Eight, at home, there is good food and drink, mom can not eat, leaving you; but in the in-laws, it is you to leave others to eat. (The order is: father-in-law, mother-in-law, husband, children, there are leftovers before it’s your turn)!
9. Mom worked hard to raise you, but she couldn’t let you go; once you get to your mother-in-law’s house and meet a bad mother-in-law, you’ll have to serve her instead of raising your son, and if you don’t, you’ll be the target.
Mother never cares if her daughter’s husband doesn’t help her cook and wash the dishes, but mother-in-law always monitors whether her son’s daughter-in-law cooks and washes the dishes.