Romantic love movies, but become the trigger to induce extramarital affairs.
Love films are released during the cheating more private detective investigation busy
Mr. Huang in Chengdu to run a building materials business, married for five years, his wife Sun is 10 years younger than himself. He is busy socializing for business, and his wife is running the household after work, and the family is happy and harmonious. But recently, he found that his wife’s entertainment suddenly become more and more, home time is getting later and later, sometimes 2:00 am still not home. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
When he learned that the 3D version of “Titanic” was released, Mr. Huang proposed to go see the movie together, but his wife replied coldly, “I don’t want to see it, it’s not interesting!” But he found a lot of traces of browsing “Titanic”-related news from his home computer. “Do you think she will cheat?” Mr. Huang asked to the point. “I can’t say! But look into it and you’ll get results in a few days.” Jia Zhongsheng replied. Inside the office, the two quickly negotiated the details of the commissioned investigation and paid a partial deposit.
From April 4, the detective agency then formed a three-person team to spend a long time squatting outside Ms. Sun’s company. The first few days, the observations were normal, some of the usual shopping Karaoke. Until 8:00 p.m. on April 8, Ms. Sun walked out of the company, not as usual to get a car, but a person standing on the side of the road to call. 20 minutes later, a white Honda Accord appeared, driving is a 30-year-old man. Ms. Sun and the man in the “play are” after eating hot pot, and then went to a nearby small bar, secluded corner, the two began to have intimate actions. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
The strange man was obviously extremely suspicious, and thinking of Ms. Sun’s previous perverse behavior toward the movie, Jia Zhongsheng and colleagues analyzed: it is likely that there will be a breakthrough in the cinema. 11:20 p.m. on April 9, 40 minutes before the 3D premiere of “Titanic”. A professionally dressed Ms. Sun came out of the cafe, a man of about 30 years old beside her naturally took her hand. The two whispered and laughed like a normal couple as they walked toward the movie theater.
Will Mr. Huang get a divorce? Jia Zhongsheng said he didn’t know and wouldn’t ask much, “We don’t get involved in any of our clients’ emotional disputes.” Could “Titanic” be the main trigger for this investigation? The company said it was not easy to say, but every Valentine’s Day, Tanabata, and the release of “Titanic” are special times when couples are piling up, and the business that comes to consult will increase a lot.
Emotional help: the relationship between love movies and cheating
1. Why love movies stimulate people to cheat
Cinema is a very seductive place for dating. The dark enough lights, ambiguous atmosphere, and the tangled excitement of the male and female leads in romance movies make it extremely easy to provoke people’s lust. Women are already romantically inclined at heart and will inevitably be stimulated by the movie to be a “heroine” in reality. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. But in fact, whether it is a love movie, or Valentine’s Day, are only the trigger to induce cheating. The real reason for cheating is the cheater’s feelings themselves.
a. The marriage is not happy, and this is the trigger
My wife is an understanding woman, and she always gives me her full trust. But the relationship between us has been very, very faint, perhaps not without love, just without passion. My wife and I have never gone to the cinema to see a movie, I used to think that this is formalism, as long as the two love each other, what romantic dates do not matter. But what I experienced this year tells me that in a romantic atmosphere, one will always want to do something romantic.
On that day, I met my first love. I don’t know why, but two people who have never dated before always have a tacit and unspoken understanding. I asked her to watch a movie, and my gut told me she would say yes to my invitation, and she did. I lied to my wife and said I was going to my buddy’s house for drinks and not coming home, so she believed me. After my first love and I watched the movie together holding hands in the cinema, the lingering love in the movie made us stimulated, unable to forget and somewhat impatient. Later we decided to go to the hotel, after the tumble, bursting with passion is something I have not experienced for a long time. It was an ambiguous atmosphere to the extreme, and it was finally cathartic.
b. Want to find excitement
Netizen: Stealing love, expensive in a word steal. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Every time a romance movie is released, people around you are always talking about it passionately. It seems like there is an ambiguous atmosphere everywhere at once, which also makes my heart stir. But my wife and I have been together for ten years and no longer have the urge to go on romantic dates. Sometimes I want to go with her, but I find it troublesome. But the excitement outside is always overwhelming. When someone invites you, you don’t refuse. This is not a betrayal, just a catharsis. Or a sacrifice to excitement.
2. Netizen tips: How to avoid your significant other moving on?
First reflect on yourself, then prescribe the right remedy. The problem is that if the problem is all on the other side, then such a partner is not wanted.
Remember not to keep mentioning that he has someone else out there. If you still want to live your life, just mention it once solemnly, don’t keep talking about it, or the other party will run away sooner or later.
Don’t treat each other with sexual punishment. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
Learn to communicate with him in time If you still love him, try to communicate with him and believe that your sincerity will move him if he is not determined to leave. The purpose of communication is to identify problems in time and not to make them go in an irreversible direction.
Think differently and love him well. Try to put yourself in his shoes and think about your relationship, find out what he needs, give him more hugs, and fill him with feeling your warmth.
Extended reading: Valentine’s Day is also a peak time for marriages
Valentine’s Day is here, and most men and women with loved ones are “itching” to have a romantic Valentine’s Day with the overwhelming publicity from businesses. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market. “
The first time I saw a woman, I was a little bit of a jerk.
From some counseling agencies, we know that every year, on the eve of Valentine’s Day and one to two weeks after it, there is a significant increase in the number of people who come to counseling agencies to do emotional counseling, and about half of them are counselors who are experiencing “fire in the backyard” with their “mistress. “
The number of people coming to the counseling facility for emotional counseling has increased significantly.
From some counseling agencies, we know that every year, a few days before Valentine’s Day, and one to two weeks after Valentine’s Day, there is a “small peak” of people coming to counseling agencies for emotional problems, and many of them are like Feng, who had a “fire in the backyard” around Valentine’s Day. The backyard fire” people, usually good “junior”, suddenly “abnormal”, some men are afraid of being found by the wife, can not give up the “junior” can The result is exposed.
“Especially in the week or two after Valentine’s Day, about half of the people who come in for daily counseling are in this situation.” The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
“These ‘mistresses’ are relatively young girls, because of their own role, they themselves are also troubled by emotional problems, so they are also willing to come to receive counseling.” The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
“I’m not sure if I’m going to be able to do this.
“When they get here, they find a place to talk and vent their emotions.”
Lee, who works for a company in the software park, was supposed to work late at night these days, but he made a point of freeing up this evening. “Rather than work harder during the day and do more work, it’s better to stay with your wife tonight, so as not to invite her unnecessary suspicion, more than one thing is better than less.